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Home >> Dating >> Do guys like honest girls????
24.01.2007, 10:45 quote
I seem to be having a reoccuring problem at the moment.
I started chatting to a couple of guys, who mailed me first and who also then asked me if I wanted to chat on MSN which we then did. Not for long each time and for a few days.
One of these guys (more so than the other) asked me if I wold be online at another time. To which I said yes but no definate times or anything. Then nothing and I'm 99% sure both have blocked me from MSN. Why??
I don't think I was rude or nasty to either. I always try to be honest and I ask them questions so I can find out more about them. That's the point of a dating site isn't it??? I never asked to meet so no pressure there and I wasn't overly flirtatious.
Why just dissappear, why not just be honest with me?
24.01.2007, 11:00 quote
No, no I did say I would be online just didn't know what time.
I did go on for most of the evening thinking they wanted to chat to me.......obviously not cause they vanished.
24.01.2007, 11:17 quote
| muppet4 wrote: |
| I seem to be having a reoccuring problem at the moment.
I started chatting to a couple of guys, who mailed me first and who also then asked me if I wanted to chat on MSN which we then did. Not for long each time and for a few days. One of these guys (more so than the other) asked me if I wold be online at another time. To which I said yes but no definate times or anything. Then nothing and I'm 99% sure both have blocked me from MSN. Why?? I don't think I was rude or nasty to either. I always try to be honest and I ask them questions so I can find out more about them. That's the point of a dating site isn't it??? I never asked to meet so no pressure there and I wasn't overly flirtatious. Why just dissappear, why not just be honest with me? |
I wouldn't worry about it, and stick to my guns if I were you. MSN is non formal, so its a bit silly if they held it against you and expected you to stick to times.
There is a possibility they were only after one thing and as you weren't over flirtatious realised you are not going to offer them what they want, and gone looking elsewhere. Just a thought.
24.01.2007, 11:33 quote
I have told myself 'am being daft' If they really wanted to chat they still could have emailed me.
I guess it's not that fact they have stopped talking to me (cause that happens) but that they have blocked me. I would only block someone if they are rude or offensive.
24.01.2007, 11:47 quote
| ladytracexx wrote: |
| Maybe they just are not the guys you thought they were?? |
Sighs.............probably, getting it wrong is the only thing I do right!!! lol
24.01.2007, 11:57 quote
| muppet4 wrote: |
| I have told myself 'am being daft' If they really wanted to chat they still could have emailed me.
I guess it's not that fact they have stopped talking to me (cause that happens) but that they have blocked me. I would only block someone if they are rude or offensive. |
They are probably in contact with loads of women, probably why they wanted you at a certain time. Might be a lucky escape for you. As Trace has said and has shown, patience is the key, and maybe being careful and a little bit selective.
24.01.2007, 12:09 quote
| Jeggea wrote: | ||
They are probably in contact with loads of women, probably why they wanted you at a certain time. Might be a lucky escape for you. As Trace has said and has shown, patience is the key, and maybe being careful and a little bit selective. |
Patience and a hobby two things I need more of.
Being selective is what keeps me single.
and................. I'm always careful
lol
Thanks for the advice. I tend to doubt myself and think it's all my fault. A habit I am trying to break.
24.01.2007, 12:23 quote
| muppet4 wrote: | ||||
Patience and a hobby two things I need more of. Being selective is what keeps me single. and................. I'm always careful lol
Thanks for the advice. I tend to doubt myself and think it's all my fault. A habit I am trying to break. |
There are thousands if not millions of people in dating websites now, and most of them probably think its their fault. But you never know who you'll meet tomorrow, maybe a coach driver
24.01.2007, 15:57 quote
| ladytracexx wrote: | ||||||||
lol lol ye.... and they say love is blind!!!! naturally!!! he was right underneath my nose....... |
That's nice..seriously though, just shows no matter how bad things could be, tomorrow's another day and anything could happen
24.01.2007, 18:20 quote
| muppet4 wrote: |
| I seem to be having a reoccuring problem at the moment.
I started chatting to a couple of guys, who mailed me first and who also then asked me if I wanted to chat on MSN which we then did. Not for long each time and for a few days. One of these guys (more so than the other) asked me if I wold be online at another time. To which I said yes but no definate times or anything. Then nothing and I'm 99% sure both have blocked me from MSN. Why?? I don't think I was rude or nasty to either. I always try to be honest and I ask them questions so I can find out more about them. That's the point of a dating site isn't it??? I never asked to meet so no pressure there and I wasn't overly flirtatious. Why just dissappear, why not just be honest with me? |
From what Ive seen your a lovely lookin woman and nice, Ive never seen you write an offensive post etc.
Like others have kinda said maybe your honesty is the thing protecting you from a lot of trouble.
Dont worry and dont change and if you get bored you can chat to me anytime.
24.01.2007, 22:50 quote
| muppet4 wrote: |
| I have told myself 'am being daft' If they really wanted to chat they still could have emailed me.
|
too right, although ive chatted to lots of ppl who seem to refuse to use, reply to or even acknowledge received email. its like its msn or nothing. seems like its too easy to have lots of random ppl on msn that can be chatted with instead of making an effort to communicate in other ways.
31.01.2007, 00:19 quote
| Leglover227 wrote: |
I love honest girls!, ...do you know any?  |
Oh HELLOOOOOOOOOO
31.01.2007, 00:27 quote
| muppet4 wrote: | ||
Oh HELLOOOOOOOOOO |
Well really!?
In that case I will have my list of questions off to you shortly …
You know just the usual questions ..
Chest size, ..favourite fantasy, ..do you like to dress as a fairy and give corrective spankings etc
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