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Poll: Have you ever had a divorce?

Have you ever had a divorce?
Yes
28%
 28%  [ 4 ]
No
71%
 71%  [ 10 ]
Total Votes : 14
 

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18.03.2007, 10:25 quote

Anonymous

Reading profiles, I wonder if the majority of the people using this site are divorced. And I also wonder the reasons of these divorces, plus why do you think there are so many divorced people using these sites.

 

18.03.2007, 10:32 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 7257 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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Well I haven't ever been married so no divorce for me

 

18.03.2007, 10:43 quote

Anonymous

Cazzabee wrote:
Well I haven't ever been married so no divorce for me


That makes us two so far.

 

18.03.2007, 10:48 quote

Anonymous

ive not been married..
but as for divorced people using these sites.. well just cos there divorced doesnt mean that cant use dating sites

 

18.03.2007, 11:20 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
ive not been married..
but as for divorced people using these sites.. well just cos there divorced doesnt mean that cant use dating sites


There is nothing wrong using dating sites, the question is made because I see many people with kids and single, plus the fact that the divorce rates are quite high (with some people talking about 50% of marriages ending in divorces).

 

18.03.2007, 11:25 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 7257 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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ivsed wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
ive not been married..
but as for divorced people using these sites.. well just cos there divorced doesnt mean that cant use dating sites


There is nothing wrong using dating sites, the question is made because I see many people with kids and single, plus the fact that the divorce rates are quite high (with some people talking about 50% of marriages ending in divorces).


Doesnt mean in this day and age that because people have kids that they have been married before does it??

 

18.03.2007, 11:38 quote

Anonymous

Cazzabee wrote:
ivsed wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
ive not been married..
but as for divorced people using these sites.. well just cos there divorced doesnt mean that cant use dating sites


There is nothing wrong using dating sites, the question is made because I see many people with kids and single, plus the fact that the divorce rates are quite high (with some people talking about 50% of marriages ending in divorces).


Doesnt mean in this day and age that because people have kids that they have been married before does it??


No, it doesn't, it is a sign, not a proof.

 

18.03.2007, 11:40 quote

Cazzabee
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ivsed wrote:
Cazzabee wrote:
ivsed wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
ive not been married..
but as for divorced people using these sites.. well just cos there divorced doesnt mean that cant use dating sites


There is nothing wrong using dating sites, the question is made because I see many people with kids and single, plus the fact that the divorce rates are quite high (with some people talking about 50% of marriages ending in divorces).


Doesnt mean in this day and age that because people have kids that they have been married before does it??


No, it doesn't, it is a sign, not a proof.


I wouldnt even personally consider it a sign in this day and age. Could be one of many reasons.....ie a long term relationship which didnt work, a short term one which resulted in a baby for various reasons. There are so many reasons...Its not so straighforward>

 

18.03.2007, 11:51 quote

Anonymous

Cazzabee wrote:
ivsed wrote:
Cazzabee wrote:
ivsed wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
ive not been married..
but as for divorced people using these sites.. well just cos there divorced doesnt mean that cant use dating sites


There is nothing wrong using dating sites, the question is made because I see many people with kids and single, plus the fact that the divorce rates are quite high (with some people talking about 50% of marriages ending in divorces).


Doesnt mean in this day and age that because people have kids that they have been married before does it??


No, it doesn't, it is a sign, not a proof.


I wouldnt even personally consider it a sign in this day and age. Could be one of many reasons.....ie a long term relationship which didnt work, a short term one which resulted in a baby for various reasons. There are so many reasons...Its not so straighforward>


It is a sign if people get married and then decide to have kids or not in this day and age, as if there are so many people who have kids and they never had a divorce, that means that they prefered or it happened to have a child without being married. Now, there are many reasons why someone could be in such a situation, but this is a topic for another thread.

 

18.03.2007, 14:54 quote

pasleptsiekare

Never been married, so I've never been divorced.


Saying that, i'm only 19!

 

18.03.2007, 15:43 quote

Hugglies
Hugglies Joined: 21 Aug 2006 Posts: 2472 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Not divorced either!
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18.03.2007, 15:47 quote

Anonymous

38 and managed to avoid marriage and therfore divorce

 

19.03.2007, 12:28 quote

me33
Joined: 14 Mar 2007 Posts: 265 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cornwall
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personally speaking i found that when i got divorced it was difficult to meet new people because most of my friends are married and would rather stay in with their families on most weekends. i think before u get married u tend to know a lot of single people and have more opportunity to have nights out. i found i lost contact with a lot of my single friends when i got married and had kids. my kids go to their dad on a sat night and i try to go out if i can drag a friend out with me.

 

19.03.2007, 17:40 quote

Anonymous

Been married and divorced twice.

The first one, well, we probably should never really have married to start with and we grew apart. The 2nd marriage ended because, to cut it short, I had grown scared of him.

I joined this site as a way of making new friends, having a few friendly flirtations (when you're a full time single mum, you need to remind yourself occasionally that you are a woman in your own right too) and possibly meet someone.

I've fulfilled all the above since joining fb

 

20.03.2007, 09:33 quote

liamblake
liamblake Joined: 08 Mar 2007 Posts: 19 Location: United Kingdom, England, Hampshire
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i've never even had a girlfriend so a divorce would be quite a stretch!

 
 
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