I was just wondering if u had been chatting 2 several people on here 4 awhile and just say 2 of the people really stood out would you arrange to meet both of them or just one and see what happens on that date but carry on talking 2 the other person but not arrange 2 meet them?

That prob made no sense so basically would u arrange a date with 2 different people?

Opinions, is it wrong or ok 2 do that?

I would say go out on both dates if you like both of them, why not? You have got nothing to lose and who's to say that if you decide to meet just one of them he doesn't turn out to be a weirdo and could have missed out with the other one!

Your an attractive girl so narrowing it down to just two im sure was hard so go for it girl and have fun!

id say go on a date with both aswell ur still single! so go and enjoy yourself see who you get on with and take it from there! fingers crossed huni let us know what you decide!

i would say depending on location and conveniance for meeting then decide who is easiest to meet or who stands out slightly more than the other. see them first and if you hit it off and you dont feel or see the need to meet the other then great? but if it doesnt go quite so well then theres always the second guy/girl?
also i would consider how long and how often you speak to the 2 people? lets say you had been speaking to one of them for 6 months and chatted weekly and he has made it very clear he has been into you for a while, and you have only really been speaking to the other guy for 2/3 weeks? i dunno really theres a lot i would consider. hurting my head just thinking about it. THERE LIKE BUSES! LOL waiting for ages and then........

Meet em both then choose the one you think is best suitable. That's assuming one of them is, they both might turn out to be duds

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...bollocks, I walked into that

Right....

This is so odd... but I've recently been in the same situation... I felt so bad, because I don't know if it was the right thing to do... I asked everyone I knew what they thought about it, heck I even looked up websites about the rules of dating. For the majority, people will say that it's ok, I mean, yes you're single and you should be able to date freely who you want... especially as they are both first encounters... See, although some may think it's wrong, I think you should date both, if you like them both... see which one really stands out more... I don't like the idea of: dating the first one and seeing how you feel after that... just because i think they both would deserve a chance. In fact though... my heart felt so awkward that I actually told them both about each other, I think it's always best to let them know what your own rules are.... I mean I think it's only fair and it somehow justifies the rest. Although they were both very difficult converastions. Though I'm not sure if it's truly right or wrong... I think you should! I've already met up with one... I will meet the other next week... but I think my feelings are already swayed... but I shant say anything more about the matter. In the end.. obviously everyone is going to have their own opinion of what they think, so it'll always just come down to you. Like... even if you think it's wrong... but you still very much would like to see them both, then do so... your feelings are important and you deserve to do what your heart wants.

Oh dear... I sound rather cheesey, but hey! I am like this

best regards,

ps., hope this helps one way or another!

I made a thread about this very thing some time ago but I think it's one of the difficulties of computer dating.

I think it's ok to see them both.

Sometimes you can't get to see them in the order that makes sense.

Also it's not so nice if somebody is aware that they're not your first choice, but it's still fair to let them know.

If you spoke to only one person and then you met but didn't hit it off, then you may be weeks behind getting to know somebody else, so I think you have to talk simultaneously with people.

I must say though, that if I find somebody who seems like they could be special, then I might not feel like talking to others anyway.

as many as you can.
fast and furious,if you can.untill you meet the cavemen,that will keep you under he's foot.... and will love that
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Thanks for your replies people! Much appreciated! Ive come 2 the decision that i will go out on a date with both of them, but originally there was going 2 be a matter of days between both dates which is why i was unsure of what to do but now its going 2 be a week and a half between both. I have been speaking 2 them roughly the same amount of time, not a huge length of time but literally talk every day so i kinda like them both but in different ways, they are very different which is quite good. I think i have nothing to lose and wouldnt even know who 2 choose if i had 2 so going on a date with both seems the right thing to do!!!

give both a shot - your single so why not?

Ok so i decided 2 go on both date. Been on 1 of them 2day 4 a lunch date and gotta say it went pretty darn well and have received the i would love 2 see u again txt which immediately put a smile on my face!!! Very different bloke 2 what i would go for and by different i mean the type of person he is but that is what has made me decide id like 2 see him again, i think different is good and prob where i have gone wrong in the past! plus he is gorgeous so that helps aswell!!! As with the other 1 well... he was my 1st initial choice but something is not adding up with him... cant quite put my finger on what it was but i dont think all is what it seems.... could be wrong but my gut is telling me something is up so do i meet him and give him a chance or go with my gut????

I believe in gut feelings being the ones to go by, but having said that, if it were me, I think I'd still have to at least meet the other one out of curiosity.....but aim for something like a midday lunch/coffee
BUT not if I'd risk losing the one I'd already met