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26.01.2007, 22:21 quote
pinkangeluk wrote: |
K, you meet someone. They're very interested in you. They are funny, intelligent, affectionate, and kind. Basically, they tick all the right boxes.
Problem is despite all that you don't really find them very attractive. (I feel so shallow saying that!). What would you do?? |
it aint shallow saying that, if someone dont float your boat physically then you are entitled to say that and feel it. personally i wouldnt date someone i didnt find attractive, its like having a piece missing to a jigsaw, its always gonna be there and i would like like to fancy the person im snogging thanx.
26.01.2007, 23:10 quote
pinkangeluk wrote: |
K, you meet someone. They're very interested in you. They are funny, intelligent, affectionate, and kind. Basically, they tick all the right boxes.
Problem is despite all that you don't really find them very attractive. (I feel so shallow saying that!). What would you do?? |
nothing shallow about this pink angel .. i'd have to say that i dont fancy the person .. hence the fact i always say you should chat for a while on msn .. swap pics (not ones taken 5-10yrs ago) and also chat via web cam before meeting ....
27.01.2007, 09:58 quote
I disagree, I've dated blokes that originally I didn't fancy. One was for 4 years and at the time I considered marrying. Looking back now I also realise that we were probably the best matched of all my boyfriends.
I just don't find that I am attracted to many blokes. The ones that I am attracted too either have 'bad boy' stamped all over them or the lust wears off and I realise we have nothing in common.
For me it isn't about looks it's the whole package. If that takes a bit of time then so be it.
28.01.2007, 14:40 quote
Papio wrote: |
I’m so sick of seeing this shit I’m not going to bother thinking up a clever answer, you’ve already made up your mind or you wouldn't have posted on a public forum, why bother asking?
Don’t string him along if your not interested Dump his ass so some other woman can find him Mr. Right and he can get on with his life. |
28.01.2007, 15:52 quote
muppet4 wrote: |
I disagree, I've dated blokes that originally I didn't fancy. One was for 4 years and at the time I considered marrying. Looking back now I also realise that we were probably the best matched of all my boyfriends.
I just don't find that I am attracted to many blokes. The ones that I am attracted too either have 'bad boy' stamped all over them or the lust wears off and I realise we have nothing in common. For me it isn't about looks it's the whole package. If that takes a bit of time then so be it. |
i totally agree with you... some people you may not look twice at, but once you get to know them.. its like there personality shines thru and that makes them attractive..
look at some celebs doing the so called beauty and the beast thing.. and most of them could have anybody they want
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