K, you meet someone. They're very interested in you. They are funny, intelligent, affectionate, and kind. Basically, they tick all the right boxes.

Problem is despite all that you don't really find them very attractive. (I feel so shallow saying that!). What would you do??

I disagree, I've dated blokes that originally I didn't fancy. One was for 4 years and at the time I considered marrying. Looking back now I also realise that we were probably the best matched of all my boyfriends.

I just don't find that I am attracted to many blokes. The ones that I am attracted too either have 'bad boy' stamped all over them or the lust wears off and I realise we have nothing in common.

For me it isn't about looks it's the whole package. If that takes a bit of time then so be it.

I’m so sick of seeing this shit I’m not going to bother thinking up a clever answer, you’ve already made up your mind or you wouldn't have posted on a public forum, why bother asking?

Don’t string him along if your not interested

Dump his ass so some other woman can find him Mr. Right and he can get on with his life.
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