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16.10.2008, 20:21 quote

snaithman
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This thread is a bit of a double donger.

When you go to arranged meets does anybody ever pair up there or arrange to make a date?

Answers below please.....

 

16.10.2008, 20:22 quote

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Hasnt anyone told you Anthony... Its a huge Orgy !

 

16.10.2008, 20:25 quote

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An interesting topic,i call it 'window shopping'

If it's a pre-arranged meet with several people, you can learn alot about someone if your interested in them by their body language and their general self - although not too many people would let their guard down around strangers (or is that just me?) and most of all, if they are interested in you too..
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16.10.2008, 20:26 quote

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I'm always finding it harder to find new ways to debauch myself Crying or Very sad

 

16.10.2008, 20:26 quote

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Its a free-for-all, like Cheeky said.

Han still can't walk straight Twisted Evil
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16.10.2008, 20:28 quote

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baggiebhoy wrote:
Its a free-for-all, like Cheeky said.

Han still can't walk straight Twisted Evil


Hahaha - i knew slimming world wasnt THAT good !!!

 

16.10.2008, 20:33 quote

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baggiebhoy wrote:
Its a free-for-all, like Cheeky said.

Han still can't walk straight Twisted Evil


PMSL Laughing

 

16.10.2008, 20:33 quote

snaithman
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I sort of agree with Stu.
It could be a window shopping exercise but the let your guard down bit I'm not so sure about.

A site like this helps you have a sneak at someone's personality before actually meeting them.

Unlike seeing someone in the boozer and chancing your arm.

I think it would be best to be yourself in a decent way.
If not surely you would be found out to be fake?

Free for all, talk about tease. That was the furthest from my mind.

 

16.10.2008, 20:40 quote

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Personally I go to meet the people I have been talking to for ages. If there is a spark between two people, they will naturally drift together, as they would do in any group of friends.
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16.10.2008, 20:50 quote

jeggae

snaithman wrote:
This thread is a bit of a double donger.

When you go to arranged meets does anybody ever pair up there or arrange to make a date?

Answers below please.....


If you've never met, its best to agree to see what happens when you meet. It is not good if one realises there's no attraction, but the other wants more. Can be very awkward.

Best to take it slow and dont expect too much, and see if the mutual attraction is there offline as well as on. I know from experience, it doesn't always happen.

 

16.10.2008, 20:52 quote

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free for all??

maybe i shouldn't come, i'm not that kind of gal Razz

 

16.10.2008, 20:53 quote

snaithman
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Jegs that is the same in any situation.

I know these meets are arranged for people that get on with each other on line.

I just wandered if any 2 have hit it off in the past whilst there.

 

16.10.2008, 21:00 quote

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baggiebhoy wrote:
Its a free-for-all, like Cheeky said.

Han still can't walk straight Twisted Evil


what the fuck

i feel sick, im in a bad mood if someone is going to post obscenities about me i would like to know first



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16.10.2008, 21:02 quote

snaithman
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poor Foxy you tell them.

I asked an innocent question and ooh, how they were rude.

 

16.10.2008, 21:06 quote

jeggae

snaithman wrote:
Jegs that is the same in any situation.

I know these meets are arranged for people that get on with each other on line.

I just wandered if any 2 have hit it off in the past whilst there.


Are you talking about arranging to meet someone there before the meet? that's different then hitting it off at the meet.

You can be attracted to someone on the net, but not when you meet in real life, alternatively you can fall for someone that didn't particularly interest you on the net.

I have been to loads of meets and it does happen and is a good way of meeting someone. I know people that are getting married after meeting at a site meet.

But its best to use the meet with someone you are chatting to on here, to firstly see if you are attracted to each other. That way there wont be any disappointments. Best to not expect too much, then anything is a bonus.

 
 
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