Hey there,

never joined a dating site before so thought i would sign up to a free one as a tester before actually parting with hard earned cash! feels a little strange to be honest but never had any luck in the real world of romance, so willing to give other things a try!

My main motivation for doing so is that i am 23 years old and have never had a girlfriend! Why this is the case i really don't know - apparently i'm a clever, funny, caring guy who isnt even that unattractive! I've travelled the world and met loads of people and shared some fantastic experiences yet somehow i always manage to come away empty handed, often with my heart being trampled on in the process. Just find it very hard at times when my friends seem to move in and out of relationships with ease, when all i'm looking to do is move in to one.

So yeah look forward to meeting anyone out there and if you have any advice that would be great! I'm usually a very positive happy guy, just feeling a little low this evening.

Speak to you soon,

Alex

First of all - Welcome!

To be honest - sites that you have to pay for aren't usually worth it and tend to be a rip off(apparently)

Don't worry about the never having a girlfriend thing. More common that you'd probably think.

Welcome to the board Alex. I wouldn't worry about not having a girlfriend. Most men my age wish they'd had casual sex with loads of different partners. Not that I agree with that concept

Welcome Alex..... hey at 23 you are still young and have your life infront of you to meet the lay of your dreams. Enjoy the boards and have fun finding her
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Welcome Alex, your not alone! I have had girlfriends but the way they turned out, I wish I didnt. Good luck on FB

i'm the same bud, single for 25 years, its like a prison sentance, but not knowing when your going to be released, eats me up inside when i'm walking down the street and see a young couple hand in hand giving each other a quick kiss, i just have to look away otherwise it plays on my mind for the rest of the day, i really dont know where i'v gone wrong you know! i must have taken all the wrong roads in life, must of got lost along the way, please somebody find me and wake me up from this nightmare, sorry thats a bit dramatic isn't it.

Your very open Bobby, thats an attractive quality.

(not to me ... to some women)

yea i'v decided to lay myself bare! so everyone can get to know me, i'm not one for holding back, i like to speak my mind, my emotions run riot most of the time. i feel like this is where its going to happen for me, i dont know why but i'v got a good feeling about this place, and thanks for the constant reassurance and friendly comments, your a real top guy, i hope good things happen for you. i see youv'e changed your picture, looks like a different bloke, did'nt recognise you.

I look different in them all lol

I put another one up today, should be approved later

People say i'm a cross between Will Mellor and Eminem, personality wise too!

yea i was going to change my picture today but my webcam is not working properly, it wont focus right, i think its been at my stella!

Haha!

Hay all,
It sounds like your going strait into that nasty friend’s place that females like to put guys into. That’s not really much of a problem for you and females will change there tune given time (not that it helps know)
I was very shy growing up (thank god for sisters) and wanted a hand writhen invitation before making any move
Im a watcher I watch people in pubs and clubs I watch people as they sit around and talk, if you watch people you start to see when a female like a guy the little things she will do to let you know she would be interested, the time she happens to seem to always be near you, the light touch on the arm, giggling at joke that just were not funny. The thing is you can see that if you look but we tend to always be looking at the same girl, and other females are watching you all look at a particular girl no one wants to be a second choice so we end up friends
The way I see it forget all them silly book about dating there mess you up more then inviting you mom on a date,
Forget chat up lines cause there only good for about .01% of the male population,

Just talk its not hard try something like umm.. Hold let me think umm.. yea how about “Hi” strange but it works then go for the knees with a little complement don’t over do it then maybe ask a question or two thing just remember to keep watching because she will give you clues if she’s not interested,
Sorry to say it but if your waiting for a female to ask you out, you in for a long wait, females in general are raised to believe it’s a bloke job to ask but there trying to give you clues