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21.01.2007, 20:18 quote

cutegirly27
cutegirly27 Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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Sad are there any guys that are willing to be with a 27 year old and not get scared of the fact i have a 5 year old..... its getting me down and i feel people are starting to go back to wanting no baggage.... she is everything to me but i still have a lot of space for someone and im quite attractive all my friends say im beautiful but why dont they stick around... Crying or Very sad

 

21.01.2007, 20:23 quote

Anonymous

Ive dated women with children, never bothered me as I love the little blighters anyway. I kind of expect women of around late twentys and over to have kids anyway so I dont let it put me off.

 

21.01.2007, 21:01 quote

Anonymous

cutegirly27 wrote:
Sad are there any guys that are willing to be with a 27 year old and not get scared of the fact i have a 5 year old..... its getting me down and i feel people are starting to go back to wanting no baggage.... she is everything to me but i still have a lot of space for someone and im quite attractive all my friends say im beautiful but why dont they stick around... Crying or Very sad
Don't you just hate it when someone comes along all cheerful like and says... don't worry yourself hunny, the right one will come along eventually...., sorry but it's gonna be me that says it Wink After over 3 years with a guy who didn't want the responsibility of my 4..yes,4!!.. children, I've met someone who just shrugged and said 'and?' when i told him

And if a nut like Morillo can like 'em, then others are bound to Wink

just be yourself and continue to be proud of your status and your child, and the person who's deserving of your attention and affections will come along

 

21.01.2007, 21:44 quote

xKemalx
xKemalx Joined: 12 Jan 2007 Posts: 14 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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im 16 and i love kids lol, maybe because i am one myself i dunno. yea, i dont see anything that could be wrong with dating a woman with children. youd like them for who they are and if they have kids then great in my opinion. Smile

 

21.01.2007, 22:17 quote

555456
Joined: 03 Dec 2003 Posts: 15 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cornwall
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cutegirly27 wrote:
Sad are there any guys that are willing to be with a 27 year old and not get scared of the fact i have a 5 year old..... its getting me down and i feel people are starting to go back to wanting no baggage.... she is everything to me but i still have a lot of space for someone and im quite attractive all my friends say im beautiful but why dont they stick around... Crying or Very sad


hi i dont mind single woman with kids im age 24 and been single 2 years people who decide not to go out with any one because they got kids isint really fair on her u cannot judge a person like that because they got kids and the other person haveint or he doesint want the stress of having kids around and etc
if u like some one if they have kids or no kids why shouldint u be with them i say if i like a girl it shouldint matter if they got 1 or 2 or maybe 3 kids
i would wanna be with her if i seen a girl i really liked for ages and she was single

i got 1 rule never judge single women because u found out they got kids
Wink Wink

 

21.01.2007, 22:37 quote

Anonymous

I can understand why a guy doesnt want to date a girl with kids, not everyone wants kids, their own or someone elses. A lot of ppl like to date and be spontaneous, thats difficult to say the least when a person has kids - you just up and do whatever - there's always the kids to consider. So yes I can understand it.

 

21.01.2007, 23:03 quote

pirakkanaama2
pirakkanaama2 Joined: 31 Dec 2006 Posts: 1889 Location: United Kingdom, England, Leicestershire
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i would date some one with kids
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21.01.2007, 23:20 quote

Papio
Joined: 01 Jan 2007 Posts: 251 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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I took home a woman with a 20 year old kid... does that count?

i'm 28 btw.
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21.01.2007, 23:31 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 7245 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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Papio wrote:
I took home a woman with a 20 year old kid... does that count?

i'm 28 btw.


Was that last night then Papio????

 

21.01.2007, 23:33 quote

Papio
Joined: 01 Jan 2007 Posts: 251 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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Noooooooooo this was weeks and weeks ago!
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22.01.2007, 00:37 quote

Anonymous

cutegirly27 wrote:
Sad are there any guys that are willing to be with a 27 year old and not get scared of the fact i have a 5 year old..... its getting me down and i feel people are starting to go back to wanting no baggage.... she is everything to me but i still have a lot of space for someone and im quite attractive all my friends say im beautiful but why dont they stick around... Crying or Very sad


Dating women with kids isn’t a problem as such. There are situations where it can be a problem though. The age of the kids for starters. In my experience the younger kids haven’t been a problem but the older teenage ones have been, ..they tended to look at me as the reason that dad wasn’t there when in fact that boat had sailed long ago before I turned up. The ex (husband) can also cause probs too, not wanting their kids to get close to another man etc …..

Granted that every situation is different but men tend to think about these things before getting involved.

 

23.01.2007, 10:28 quote

Anonymous

...it's not just women who have this problem....I'm a dad of two with the same problem....and ye, telling someone the right one will come along....that's crap.... Evil or Very Mad Twisted Evil UT

 

23.01.2007, 10:54 quote

cutegirly27
cutegirly27 Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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the trouble is they go out with me for 9 months and make plans for the future and then suddenly turn round on the spot and finish it without any warning thats what im talking about! if blokes dont want girlfriends with kids dont start dating them as they will get hurt by the fact you cant take it
Crying or Very sad

 

23.01.2007, 11:17 quote

Anonymous

sorry to hear that cutegirly, then it makes you think, did they realy love you, or did they only want you for your body....my problem is as soon as I tell a woman I have two kids then she runs....ye, I suppose nobody wants baggage, but wheter you are single or have kids you still have some kind of baggage.....you are a cutegirly, hopefully you will meet a cute man who won't be affraid to put a ring on your finger!! Wink

 

23.01.2007, 11:52 quote

Anonymous

I didnt plan on being a dad again but if I met someone I liked it definatly wouldn't put me off.

 
 
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