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12.09.2008, 19:32 quote

rocketgirl

eda85 wrote:
rocketgirl wrote:
eda85 wrote:
No granny banging. Simple


At what age - your own age - will you change that stance?
I know a 35 yrs old granny.


Good for you. I won't be banging her



Laughing Laughing Laughing

Oooh I do like a man who knows his own mind.
Shame you dont want to be a toyboy for a step-granny though..... Razz

 

12.09.2008, 19:39 quote

rocketgirl

Teggro wrote:
Depends on the mentality and how big the gap is. If you have daughters/ sons then it's definately sick to date someone younger than them(we're talking 20+). It also depends on whhat the involved want out of it. Age DOES matter, and so does personality and looks.



Ooooh my ex-hubby is 65 and I am 42 and yes he has kids my age....OMG that means I married a sicko!!!
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The age gap was nothing to do with us splitting up, and he's still my best friend, so I have to disagree that age always comes into it.
On the other hand, I've seen couples with a few years between them - both young - when its not worked out because one hasnt matured as fast as the other.
A man/woman of 50 with a partner of 60 arent going to have the age issue compared to another couple with 10 years between them, say 16 and 26.
Of course personality will come into it - you have to like one another for starters - but blimey what the hell has looks got to do with it???

 

12.09.2008, 19:43 quote

rocketgirl

eda85 wrote:
rocketgirl wrote:
eda85 wrote:
No granny banging. Simple


At what age - your own age - will you change that stance?
I know a 35 yrs old granny.


Good for you. I won't be banging her


That was actually a serious question.
What I meant was lets say when you are 30 (which isnt so far away in all honesty) if you meet a really nice 35 yrs old lady with grandkids, would you not give it a chance?
Perhaps you cant answer that until you are in that situation?

 

12.09.2008, 20:19 quote

Teggro
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rocketgirl wrote:
Teggro wrote:
Depends on the mentality and how big the gap is. If you have daughters/ sons then it's definately sick to date someone younger than them(we're talking 20+). It also depends on whhat the involved want out of it. Age DOES matter, and so does personality and looks.



Ooooh my ex-hubby is 65 and I am 42 and yes he has kids my age....OMG that means I married a sicko!!!
Laughing

The age gap was nothing to do with us splitting up, and he's still my best friend, so I have to disagree that age always comes into it.
On the other hand, I've seen couples with a few years between them - both young - when its not worked out because one hasnt matured as fast as the other.
A man/woman of 50 with a partner of 60 arent going to have the age issue compared to another couple with 10 years between them, say 16 and 26.
Of course personality will come into it - you have to like one another for starters - but blimey what the hell has looks got to do with it???


Yeah... he's a cretin Wink
Looks are on par with personality. I always say that. No physical attraction, goes WHEEEWWWWWW down the drain. Yes, age doesn't always matter, but personally they do. You gotta have barriers, imo. Some times a little past the barrier is ok, if they're exceptional.

 

12.09.2008, 20:24 quote

rocketgirl

Aha, when you said looks you meant looks, not looks.
Physical attraction might help most often, one imagines. Unless you're a gal of 19 and he's 92 and Rockafella.

 

12.09.2008, 20:32 quote

eda85

rocketgirl wrote:
eda85 wrote:
rocketgirl wrote:
eda85 wrote:
No granny banging. Simple


At what age - your own age - will you change that stance?
I know a 35 yrs old granny.


Good for you. I won't be banging her


That was actually a serious question.
What I meant was lets say when you are 30 (which isnt so far away in all honesty) if you meet a really nice 35 yrs old lady with grandkids, would you not give it a chance?
Perhaps you cant answer that until you are in that situation?


Hmmm, a serious question eh? Well actually that would be pretty good

 

17.09.2008, 01:51 quote

gigm
Joined: 16 Sep 2008 Posts: 81 Location: United Kingdom, Wales, Dyfed
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Personally my rule is no one more than 1.5*my age. So as I'm 19 (i round that to 20 in my mind to make the math easier) I'd only go out with people between the age of 16 to 30
Edit: although friend ship is ok at any age range, just as long as it doesn't become sexual.

 

17.09.2008, 07:30 quote

snaithman

gigm wrote:
Personally my rule is no one more than 1.5*my age. So as I'm 19 (i round that to 20 in my mind to make the math easier) I'd only go out with people between the age of 16 to 30
Edit: although friend ship is ok at any age range, just as long as it doesn't become sexual.

You are limiting yourself from a wide variety of enjoyment. Why not break your rule once and see.

 

17.09.2008, 07:36 quote

deepthroath

*cringe*

I am 25 now, but when i was 21, i met a 40 year old. We got engaged and everything.

My rule of thumb, and sad as it may sound, is that i wont even look at anyone under the age of 30. I thin in my mind, its that i was a man not a boy. I appreciate as i get older this rule is going to get harder to follow... lol!!

 

17.09.2008, 08:45 quote

david1981
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I guess it depends on what you're looking for at the end of the day. I haven't got a problem dating an older lady and having a bit of flirty fun, but if I were looking for something longer term, a large age gap might be an issue if you were planning a family etc.

 

17.09.2008, 08:53 quote

katie6

i am 22 and i would draw the line at about 30, stupid thing is a seem to mainly attract men who are 40+ one fella even said to me the other day if i was only 60 years younger haha

 

17.09.2008, 21:09 quote

gigm
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snaithman wrote:
gigm wrote:
[color=darkred]Personally my rule is no one more than 1.5*my age. So as I'm 19 (i round that to 20 in my mind to make the math easier) I'd only go out with people between the age of 16 to 30
Edit: although friend ship is ok at any age range, just as long as it doesn't become sexual.

You are limiting yourself from a wide variety of enjoyment. Why not break your rule once and see.


I know i am, but it the rules of the family. So until i can afford to move out of my parents ...[/color]

 

17.09.2008, 22:12 quote

eda85

katie6 wrote:
i am 22 and i would draw the line at about 30, stupid thing is a seem to mainly attract men who are 40+ one fella even said to me the other day if i was only 60 years younger haha


Tell me about it! Same thing happens to me. The other day a 40 something year old woman said 'if I were single..'

That'll teach me for flirting... Rolling Eyes

 

17.09.2008, 22:25 quote

snaithman

Uncanny.

I was flirting with an 18 year old and she said, 'if only I was 25 years older'.

 

18.09.2008, 07:36 quote

deepthroath

See, another question to add onto this ... because i think it may be pointless starting a new post.... is...

Why is it more accepted for a younger woman to date an older man, but a little more frowned upon for an older woman to date a younger man? I dont mean like 24 and 29... i'm talking a good 20 year age gap.

As has been said by me, i was engaged to someone 18 years older than me, and it wasnt such an issue (some people said things, but marry em!) Whereas my auntie who was 39 started seeing a 19year old and she got ripped for it.

Why?

 
 
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