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25.01.2009, 13:20 quote

rocketgirl

bbones wrote:
lyndsaey21 wrote:
Well just thought id post a reply to say about my situation, and i was 17 when i met my husband and theres a 21 year age gap, he was 38 when we first met. We got married when i was 19 and he was 40, we've been married for 10 years now and really happy - we never think aout the age gap - and to be honest nobody ever mentions it - he looks at least 10 years younger than he actually is and everybody says so. Were very happy - age DOES NOT matter

O and people will ask why im on a dating site if im happy - ive lived in the uk for years (and this is one of the only sites thats got a swedish forum (i am from there) and so ive met lots of people i chat too ok - so don't go on about that! Thanks - O and he does know!


lol your profile says ur looking for flirty fun, romance, long-term relationship, etc etc lol or do u have another profile for the swedish site??? lol damn the internet cracks me up haha


Ish - *you* crack me up, trust you to sniff out the....errrmmm....."not terribly honest" ones!
Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

 

25.01.2009, 18:53 quote

chatt3r

rocketgirl wrote:

I've never known anyone to be happy falling out of a window. They tend to break something, or die.


OH! Sharp!

ROFL Laughing

 

25.01.2009, 23:12 quote

lady88

Erm...i couldnt go with anyone younger than me at the mo! Maybe a year at a push but not sure about that! As for my upper limit, it's 29 and will remain at that for the next 7 years at least!

 

20.02.2009, 10:33 quote

bt845791

rocketgirl wrote:
eda85 wrote:
No granny banging. Simple


At what age - your own age - will you change that stance?
I know a 35 yrs old granny.


I might be old fashioned but I wouldnt dream of dating any woman more than 5-6 years my junior. I know things are different nowadays but I could use some advice . . . Embarassed

 

06.03.2009, 23:42 quote

rocketgirl

Ha! When my husband and I were 50 and 26 respectively we had a new born baby and a 4 yrs old.
Yes, sleep deprivation was a serious issue for both of us!

Laughing

 

27.03.2009, 00:13 quote

sc0ttie

curvycloxx wrote:
Well i'm 18 and suposed to be meeting up with a guy thats 33 years old.

We hit it off so good on the phone and i know it may be different in reality.. but do you think the age gap will get in the way? Confused


I don't think it would in some cases age difference can be quite complimentary for the two people involved.

 

28.03.2009, 18:52 quote

sc0ttie

sc0ttie wrote:
curvycloxx wrote:
Well i'm 18 and suposed to be meeting up with a guy thats 33 years old.

We hit it off so good on the phone and i know it may be different in reality.. but do you think the age gap will get in the way? Confused


I don't think it would in some cases age difference can be quite complimentary for the two people involved.


and also quite detrimental. perhaps one who dates a woman or man 25 years younger than himself is as immature as them? or is it really that they are as mature as them? That would be found out once dating commences I guess. but for a 50 year old dating an 18 year old there is a huge difference in experience and capacity for emotional understanding, I would have thought so anyway?

 

29.03.2009, 01:19 quote

sc0ttie

CMISO wrote:
sc0ttie wrote:
sc0ttie wrote:
curvycloxx wrote:
Well i'm 18 and suposed to be meeting up with a guy thats 33 years old.

We hit it off so good on the phone and i know it may be different in reality.. but do you think the age gap will get in the way? Confused


I don't think it would in some cases age difference can be quite complimentary for the two people involved.


and also quite detrimental. perhaps one who dates a woman or man 25 years younger than himself is as immature as them? or is it really that they are as mature as them? That would be found out once dating commences I guess. but for a 50 year old dating an 18 year old there is a huge difference in experience and capacity for emotional understanding, I would have thought so anyway?


Are you arguing with yourself? Both points pretty valid of course.


Yeah I do that a lot

 
 
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