if you love her so much you wouldnt be looking for love with someone else, youd be making full use of ur hand

If you say you love your wife as much as you do i dont think you would have it in you too sleep with anyone else.
And yes i can imagine it must be a difficult situation for you in regards to your wifes illness, but dont you think that if your wife found out that your were doing this it would pretty much trumatise her???
Why dont you do the appropriate thing and take a walk down to your local ann summers shop there are lots of aids to helop you like realsitc feel lips etc.
if your too shy to go and buy them then order them online.
but seriously if you had any respect and love for your wife then you would not cheat and scew around behind her back.

buy a dummy doll not that i have one lol

Don't worry I can understand where your coming from, us men do get a build up of tension and become sexually frustrated, feel unwanted etc etc and masturbation isn't the answer, you can't beat 2 or 3 hours of no strings fun with another lady if it means that you become more relaxed towards every day life and easier to live with !! There are also ladies out there in the same situation who don't want to admit how they feel it just seems there are not many of that type on this site ie married long term or in dull relationship.

I know alot of women with ms and I know they are getting and giving to their husbands. Isnt she on meds. Maybe both of you should read the book LEAN ON ME its about a lady with ms and she is doing quite well, unless of course your wife is into the really hell stages, I dont mean to be nasty or mean. Theres plenty of women out there that will do netsex as i call it.

This forum cracks me up, the amount of young in their 20's who've been there done it got the T shirt who are most probably still single and screw around whenever they can, well give it time you may marry and if you do try spending 10, 15 or 20 years with just one sexual partner and see what it's like, the love you feel is the same, but physically it's not and your priorities in life change.

Danni, i have to agree with you. People believe being young means you havent experienced anything. Yet alot of young folk have experienced a hell of alot.

On this post, i believe your wrong to want to sleep with someone else. Discuss it with your wife, see what she thinks.

I'm trying to give my opinion to the guy who started this topic, I am sorry if I offend anyone with what I say and obviously there are going to be exceptions. Yes everyone is different, but there are a large majority of younger people who still have a lot of growing up to do and not many of the comments are very positive, you sometimes need to experience the situation then think before you give views and opinions.

ps Danni, didn't think it appropriate to tell everyone your situation, its straying away from the current topic. I should have said the Majority of and not all younger people... so i'm sorry for that !!

Scot (well done)

I thought what you said was put across very well and your right it is a difficult question and there is no easy way to answer it.