My wife's has MS for 7 years and i'm male 34 and love her
but sex is no more. Your probably reading this saying liar-liar
pants on fire, well it's whats inside the pants that remains on fire.
Straight up -swear on my life-all i need is a little closer company.
I actually wish there was a site for people who's partners take ill
then i wouldn't be here.
Glasgow
Male 34

Just tell me to ---- ---

if you love her so much you wouldnt be looking for sex with someone else, youd be making full use of ur hand

If you say you love your wife as much as you do i dont think you would have it in you too sleep with anyone else.
And yes i can imagine it must be a difficult situation for you in regards to your wifes illness, but dont you think that if your wife found out that your were doing this it would pretty much trumatise her???
Why dont you do the appropriate thing and take a walk down to your local ann summers shop there are lots of aids to helop you like realsitc feel lips etc.
if your too shy to go and buy them then order them online.
but seriously if you had any respect and love for your wife then you would not cheat and scew around behind her back.

buy a dummy doll not that i have one lol

I could go to a club and pick up a date no problemo
but i dont want anything other than sex so thats a nono.

Prostitutes ? where ? Daily Sport? follow a phone number
and get robbed by some junky c---.

Masterbation Vs Sex..........i cant think of anything else to
say..................i tried.

Thanks for the advice

Don't worry I can understand where your coming from, us men do get a build up of tension and become sexually frustrated, feel unwanted etc etc and masturbation isn't the answer, you can't beat 2 or 3 hours of no strings fun with another lady if it means that you become more relaxed towards every day life and easier to live with !! There are also ladies out there in the same situation who don't want to admit how they feel it just seems there are not many of that type on this site ie married long term or in dull relationship.

i think you are very brave, and you cannot deny your human nature, as a man you owe it to your self to go and get laid, even if it means nothing, for the sake of your humanity, and i mean this in the nicest possible way, what you wife doesnt know wont hurt her, just make sure you treat your wife like a dimond, make her happy, i am sure deep down she would want you to.

I know alot of women with ms and I know they are getting and giving to their husbands. Isnt she on meds. Maybe both of you should read the book LEAN ON ME its about a lady with ms and she is doing quite well, unless of course your wife is into the really hell stages, I dont mean to be nasty or mean. Theres plenty of women out there that will do netsex as i call it.

This forum cracks me up, the amount of young in their 20's who've been there done it got the T shirt who are most probably still single and screw around whenever they can, well give it time you may marry and if you do try spending 10, 15 or 20 years with just one sexual partner and see what it's like, the love you feel is the same, but physically it's not and your priorities in life change.