If so, what/how?

I mean... Don't get me wrong, it's not my top thought of the day... LOL I just read on another topic something like: If she didn't do it right, I'd rather she didn't do it at all (by yours truly pegasus).

So, men opinions on this... Apart from the obvious bites which aren't too indicated (andreally gross stuff that would never happen or it would once every blue moon), is there such thing as a bad BJ?

Also... What makes a BJ great?

Gosh I'm diggin a hole here... So long.

p.s. Women feel free to contribute too... There such thing as bad OS for them? If so... How/what?

lol, and i am actually laughing out loud.
If you ever meet my ex husband you will learn there is bad oral,
Dont get me wrong he knows what a clit is and where it is,(now anyway) he just didnt understand it wasnt a lift button and jabbing it wont make it come more quickly!

As for the other way round, yes loads of men have told me there are more bad bj's then good ones out there, however from what I can make out its mostly too much hand action which makes them sore?????

I will bow out now and leave the men to answer this and fill in the details

trying to improve the old technique for xmas eh bliss!!! haha

Ha ha ha!!! Well apparently there is such a thing as a bad blow job but im not being funny but they should be grateful we do it, i mean the jaw ache it causes us and when it hits the back of your throat and makes you heave! Plus when they got their hands on your head forcing you to go deeper whilst your just trying to breathe! Be grateful men for FFSS!

But most men do like it different and one of my exs loved you to nibble the head a bit! Each to their own i suppose!

Also this also works both ways and most men are no good at the vice verser, some know this and wont even attempt it yet we are expected to stay their till they cum!!!

I want to hear from more men on this topic! How to give the perfect blow job for xmas!!!

Plenty of practise is my advice ...... oh and if you enjoy doing it, it helps. Good Job i bloody love it ......

Im surprised no men have contributed to this!

Some of us rarely look in this section anymore

In my experience, the vast majority of women arent very good at blowjobs, and it can be a bit boring.. Except for the DIY ejaculation of course

Not many women can give a real good knee trembler. As been said, probably by women that enjoy it
A good blow job has to make your knees tremble

I suppose not many men know how to suck a clit though

Bahahahahah I never expected y'all to be so shy... I mean y'all who haven't answered yet...

But then again, maybe it's just the holiday fever and ye'r all on vacation doing God knows what...

Interesting thoughts so far... But, as msjb says, I'm waiting for more replies.

Anyway... I've asked two other guys (other than the ones answering on this topic) and they mocked me, so it's either they're all cheeky on subjects of their choice alone, or nobody wants to approach this subject... I don't know. LOL

Maybe, after all, most people have no idea what a good one or bad one are and everybody's had just regular ones. LOL

Jeggae's view on it was interesting, but only in regards to the knee shaking. LOL I think we can all agree that, regardless of gender, it's always spectacular if your knees are shaking, lol (unless your partner is Freddy Krueger).

Anyway... Come on y'all... Answer it.

Also... From what I've gathered so far, here are some ideas:

* Apparently if you aren't too agressive or too numb, it cannot be bad (but it's probably not great either).

* From says on other forums: A bad bj contains

1-Tooo much teeth. (A little nibble now and then is kinda hot.)
2-Too much hand and not enough mouth. (Buzz kill unless both are coordinated.)
3-Pulling mouth off and alternating to hand. (Advanced technique that should be done by an experienced wench with a well lubricated hand.)

* From other points of view, there are such things as a bad one and great one, but nobody can really explain why... It's just out there... LOL Like the air we breathe and cannot see...

* I think a soft tongue makes a big difference for everyone, kissing included... So maybe people should work on softening their tongue. LOL

* Oh and one last thing... Apparently after they finish, men get quite tender down there (in parts) and it's best if you left it alone for a wee while. Don't know if this applies to all of them... However what I can say is that women get very tender there from the very first moment they became excited (also in parts)... So guys should handle with care and wait for the green light. PMSL

* In the end everybody should let themselves be conducted by the moaning... However what do you do if someone doesn't moan at all? Because it doesn't necessarily means they're not enjoying it... Some people are just quiet.

* Also... Communication has been suggested... As in do this and that... But what do you do when they don't moan, won't tell you what ticks for them and suggest you do whatever you please? LOL

I'm not a great fan of blowjobs, and usually find them a bit dull, but they can also be uncomfortable and scratchy at times, if I'm not in the mood or if the giving partner has consumed something astringent like black tea, which strips saliva of it's lubricating properties.

Too much hand = bad BJ.

Just use your mouth! It's meant to be a BJ not a HJ!

bj is over-rated and as jeggea said, most women cant get it right, but then again, i think with us men, its more of some ego type thing, coz when i was a bit younger (lol) havin a girl "suck my dick" was more of a quick ego boost than ever, and it has to be a throat skeet, otherwise the whole thing becomes psychologically useless.. u need to know how to work ur hands, lips, tongue, palate, etc.. its artwork and dont bother if u aint the creative type
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Ok, I'll branch out here and give my opinion on the subject...

First off I would say there are two sides here - and I totally agree with missjb's comments... Some blokes are bad at receiving oral love!! Grabbing your partners head and forcing them to go deeper isn't going to let either person have fun!

personally my pet hates are - not enough foreplay - switching to hand & mouth together or just hand (can get a bit sore) - no attention paid to other areas - breaking the flow before the real ending - using teeth - and so on...

I would say there are a bunch of ways to improve oral love, and if i was to talk someone through it - it would go like this:

1. The best thing about getting a blow job is knowing you are getting one. A girl should make it very clear thats what she intends to do down there, but definitely spend some time on warm up first. A guy should be rock hard before your mouth goes anywhere near him!

2. Mix up your style and pay attention to what seems to be working... alternate with fast/slow shallow/deep... and take the odd breather and tease with your tongue... And just straight up asking whether its working can be a winner!

3. Use your hands elsewhere... Rubbing and cupping can be a winner too, but one of the sexiest things i have found is a girl rubbing her hands over my thighs and up onto my stomach... Its a really nice feeling

Other than that I'd say it depends on the guy - personally i love getting oral love, but it can definitely be done wrong... End of the day it takes time to get to know what someone likes and doesnt like!