as a 36 year old guy who hasnt yet married i have had shall we say a few girlfriends down the years, and one complaint that a lot of women have expressed to me {after complimenting me on my knowledge usually} is that a lot of the other guys they had been with just didnt know how to satisfy them..... a common complaint was: he just pumps away for 5 minutes then falls asleep" and the most popular complaint was : i wish he could satisfy me with his tongue and fingers". from what ive been told by women there are quite a few men out there who dont even know where a womans clitoris or g-spot are located..... which are just the basics really lets face it. they also complained about lack of foreplay {that old chestnut} and a general lack of flair and diversity in their mans sexual approach.... well this doesnt give blokes in general much credit does it? where have all the swordsman gone? are fellas in general not satisfying their women? and if not why? i'd love to hear in particular the womens side of the story..... but it would also be good to hear the blokes side too........ maybe the women just arent inspiring their fellas? please dont just look, post your experiences whether good or bad?

So let me get this straight................

Just after you've had sex with them they tell you how good you are and how bad all the other guys are.........................

that old chestnut eh ................
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why is it an old chestnut i havent seen anyone else post anything similar? i'm not going to do the false modesty thing mate just to stay "in" with the fellas..... thats my experience..... and for the record i'm not saying EVERY woman..... ooooh say 8 out of ten say......lol.

every guy I have slept with has been the best I have ever had.

If I answer their call afterwards then they know I wasn't lying

POL YOU ALWAYS HAVE A COOL LITTLE ASIDE TO DROP INTO THE MIX.... IVE COME TO COUNT ON IT ALMOST....

The biggest complaint I've heard is that men are in it just for themselves. So it's the usual two-pump Charlie routine until they've shot their bolt, then roll over and go to sleep. Surely it's all about mutual pleasure? If you postpone your own gratification it pays dividends. Get your groundwork done; good PC muscle control, know the plumbing inside out etc. and you'll be laughing all the way to the Leeds.

You've got to make the effort when you go downtown too. You can't just go at the man in a boat like you're trying to get a troublesome tea stain off your dining table. If you're serious about it then you really, really need to learn your craft. Any man worth his salt has 'She Comes First' sitting on his bookshelf. If you think reading sex books is somehow sad and makes you less of a man, think again. Nobody has any innate knowledge when it comes to the bedroom, and if you think porn or your mates are going to teach you anything worthwhile then fuck me are you in for a shock. A decent book or a woman who knows exactly what she wants and how to get it are the only way you're going to learn. I had to learn the hard way by being the guy who pumps away like a Jack russell at a Miss Lovelylegs competition for a couple of minutes and then rolls off, goes to sleep or nips off for a piss; that got me shown the door on more than one occasion. So it was a case of shape up or ship out.

Speak to enough women and you'll soon realise there are thousands of men out there who, if a license were required, would still be driving on their provisional. They do our gender a great injustice.

makes a note to look on Amazon for that book to give as first date presents from now on!

Thanks Chikhai!

chikhai..... very well said mate..... as usual you hit the bullseye...... you obviously have more than a clue about making it so both parties go to work the next day with a smile on their faces......

Have you tried using SAT Nav ?

I haven't had any complaints, and I've had one or two callbacks

u must be doing something right them