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Poll: Which contraception method?

Which contraception method?
The Pill
20%
 20%  [ 5 ]
Male condom
40%
 40%  [ 10 ]
Female condom
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
The coil
16%
 16%  [ 4 ]
Withdrawal method
8%
 8%  [ 2 ]
Contraceptive injection
8%
 8%  [ 2 ]
Contraceptive implants
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
Cap/diaphram
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
Rhythm method
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
Sterilisation (male or female)
8%
 8%  [ 2 ]
Total Votes : 25
 

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04.08.2007, 14:30 quote

Anonymous

Thought I'd start another poll since I started a thread about vasectomy Smile

Contraception......which one do people here use? Any reason? As with the Vasectomy thread, we are talking purely about contraception, not the risk of STD's

There aren't enough options in the poll, people might also like to discuss:

Different, depending on circumstances
None
Other

 

04.08.2007, 16:19 quote

kizz

annmarie5988 wrote:
well i have the minera coil, last 5 years & i have no periods, which is fantastic ...... x


That sounds good Smile Does that mean no pmt also?

Way way back, when I was actually getting some... I had the 3 monthly injection Smile

 

04.08.2007, 16:32 quote

aimee88

I used to be on the injection.

Was going well up until a year into it, turned me in a crazy ass godzilla like creature with no desire but to scream at everything with a heartbeat, and the odd inanimate object.
I didnt want to make myself look pretty, I had no libido, and generally was a wreck.

And of course being such a young age was concerd about what it was done to by body.
Just over a year since I came off ti and my periods have only jus come back.

I feel like a woman again Very Happy

Have yet to have love whilst off it, but its going to be condoms for sure.
I need to get myself to the clinic and get chcked out as I could have anything. Its a scary thought, and thinking that I could have passed something on to somebody else is sickening.

I've been a stupid girl.

Anyway, onwards and upwards. Rubbers all the way!

 

04.08.2007, 16:39 quote

Anonymous

aimee88 wrote:

.........Have yet to have love whilst off it, but its going to be condoms for sure.
..............Anyway, onwards and upwards. Rubbers all the way!


Condoms are not always a viable option, which I won't go into it here as would be saying the same thing as I said in the Vasectomy thread (another thread in this forum).

 

04.08.2007, 16:44 quote

aimee88

So i read...

If condoms were not an option, and I were in a loving relationship I'd be prepared to try a differant form of drug controlled contreception, however very cautiously and talk it through with my doctor.

The nurse at the clinic used to ask me in, turn my ass into an archary board, then send me back out again, not asking if I was doing ok.

Not prepared to konk my body up more than it already has been.

 

04.08.2007, 16:50 quote

Anonymous

aimee88 wrote:
So i read...

If condoms were not an option, and I were in a loving relationship I'd be prepared to try a differant form of drug controlled contreception, however very cautiously and talk it through with my doctor.


Very good point, but I guess it depends on the age of the couple and whether or not they might wish to have kids later in their relationship. For me the issue of whether or not I do something permanent at this stage of my life is not such a drastic one as it might be for someone that you might meet (I assume that at 18 you might still have ambitions for a family later in your life).

 

04.08.2007, 20:28 quote

Anonymous

Im on the pill, with my ex we just used that as our contraception method and im sure that would work again in a steady happy relationship, never done me wrong. Condoms are good when you need them as well tho.

 

04.08.2007, 21:39 quote

Anonymous

I dont mind condoms at all, and i prefer it if my partner is on the pill as well.

 

05.08.2007, 10:42 quote

Anonymous

I have a coil too, but still get PMT!! Love the coil but hate PMT!!

Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad

 

05.08.2007, 17:54 quote

Anonymous

Sterilised - Happy days with no worries Very Happy

 

31.08.2007, 09:48 quote

mrmcbain

My Ex wife hated condoms and was not allowed to use them she initially was on the pill but it made her depressed so she came off them, we used condoms for a few months and i was very happy as i do find they help me last longer i know its not about that but i need all the help i can get somethimes. She then changed to the implant in her arm and again no condoms, it may be that im slightly paranoid but i never really tursted contraception i couldnt see... she became very moody and easy to anger while using the implant. 6 months after removal she was still waiting for her periods to return. We broke up shortly after that so i am back to using good old condoms as i was taught at school.. Laughing

 

05.09.2007, 07:56 quote

Anonymous

AEssexBloke wrote:
As you can see from my profile, we don't worry too much about contraception, so my current choice is withdrawal.


I just read your profile, and I fail to see the "anything but love" option checked. If you are going to have love then you should take responsibility for contraception - even if it is not you taking the precautions.

oh, and finally, the picture rules state faces only, and it has to be you. Both you and your wife have a picture of your child in your profiles, this is a dating site not a "how cute is my kid" site, I would take them down.

 

05.09.2007, 16:22 quote

Anonymous

AEssexBloke wrote:
As for meant to show your face only, and only have you in the picture, well, I'm afraid this may come as a bit of a shock, there are a lot of pictures on this site of people showing their bodies, or of them on nights out with friends etc. At least you know who I am in my picture?


Your child is innocent, and not involved in you and your wifes dating. All I was saying was that I though it was inappropriate to have a picture of a child in a profile which is clearly aimed at you trying to pick up a girl so you can have love with them and your wife.

AEssexBloke wrote:

P.S. I didn't realise your rather attractive breasts being stuck out in your picture made up part of your face. lol


I am not sticking them out, and thanks for the pointless lewd comment which makes me feel cheap for dressing nicely. /sarcasm

p.s. do not send me any more private messages about wanting to "get to know me better" I know what you are after, and if you bothered to read my profile instead of staring at my chest you would know that I am not looking for that kind of "fun".

 

05.09.2007, 17:43 quote

Anonymous

I am not annoyed or upset, it's the internet doing that is pointless.

AEssexBloke wrote:

Maybe you should make an effort to get to know people and give them a chance before you start judging them with your preconceived ideas as to what they want and what they must be like.


I find that patronising, if you read my earlier post I commented about what your profile says about you, so I read yours. You clearly have not read mine.

So now who has "preconceived ideas" ?

 

05.09.2007, 18:02 quote

Anonymous

Yep sounds a good idea or else take it to P.M's

 
 
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