i was'nt aloud on the pill when married, the moment i caught him in bed with a kid i got sterilised. the day i had op he left

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.........abstinence!

Well, I can't have the pill.

Usually condoms for me.

Thinking of getting a coil fitted, though, which will
a) Sort out my contraception
and
b)(may) help with my condition.

Injection and condoms I need neither babies or STIs

My Ex wife hated condoms and was not allowed to use them she initially was on the pill but it made her depressed so she came off them, we used condoms for a few months and i was very happy as i do find they help me last longer i know its not about that but i need all the help i can get somethimes. She then changed to the implant in her arm and again no condoms, it may be that im slightly paranoid but i never really tursted contraception i couldnt see... she became very moody and easy to anger while using the implant. 6 months after removal she was still waiting for her periods to return. We broke up shortly after that so i am back to using good old condoms as i was taught at school..

As you can see from my profile, we don't worry too much about contraception, so my current choice is withdrawal.

Hi Sarah, obviously I meant that if I am with my other half we do not bother with contraception. should it be with anyone else, then yes I do use protection, but I think I stated that in one of my above posts?

As for the pictures, we do not have many pictures of us stored on our pc, and most of those that we do have, are of us with the baby, as once you have a baby, you tend to spend all your time with them. As for meant to show your face only, and only have you in the picture, well, I'm afraid this may come as a bit of a shock, there are a lot of pictures on this site of people showing their bodies, or of them on nights out with friends etc. At least you know who I am in my picture?

P.S. I didn't realise your rather attractive breasts being stuck out in your picture made up part of your face. lol

Sorry, just read my posts from yesterday and the bit about me using contraception was on the "love on the first date" thread, so you might not have seen that.

Sarah, I have no idea what I have done to annoy you or upset you. As far as I know, I sent you one message saying hi, you look nice, I liked your profile, and you say you would like to meet friends and chat, would you like to chat so we can get to know each other. Believe it or not, people in open relationships are not always after only one thing, they do have friends, and do make friends. For example, on this site, I talk to some lovely people, none of whom will I ever even think of sleeping with, or vice versa, but we are becoming good friends.

Maybe you should make an effort to get to know people and give them a chance before you start judging them with your preconceived ideas as to what they want and what they must be like.

I am not annoyed or upset, it's the internet doing that is pointless.

Hi Sarah, I read your profile early this morning and it said that you were looking for friends, and just to chat, hence my emailing you asking you if you would like to chat and get to know each other.

After all, if you do not chat and get to know each other, how do you become friends?

As for the preconceived ideas, you can't blame me for feeling like that regarding what you had written:

Yep sounds a good idea or else take it to P.M's