That is what sex is for is ot not?

Children are a nightmare......I know, I was one!

Joking aside, I think many people have grown up too selfish to have children, hence many children don't experience quality family time, they're often supplied with things to keep them occupied whilst the adults do what they want.

Then there are also many people whose worlds revolve around doing the best for their kids and includes the bedtime story, family meals and activities and generally doing and sharing things together.

Then there are the reluctant parents who may have had children for all the wrong reasons, and society needs to accept, and reduce the pressure some people feel to have a family to please someone else rather than themselves.

I have 2 grown up children, physically miles away, yet their impact on my day to day life is still evident. Love them both lots and lots! Wouldn't want to fall pregnant now though.

I have 2 grown up and love them to bits but definitely no more.

Procreation is only one function that sex is used for

As RG says it is a way to bond, to get gratification.

It is also a form of exercise.

As for the Thread Title.....hhhhmmmm, well been there done that bought the t-shirt....I am now looking forward to the day I have grand-children. (already have 3 step grandkids).
OMG that makes me feel old!!!

4 Grandaughters.....says it all really, defo no more for me, would be a miracle anyway.....will just enjoy practicing from now on thanks.....did someone say execise? heehee
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Right now.....Nope I wouldnt. I'm too busy living my own life the way I want to without haing to worry about somebody else. Selfish that may be but it's my choice. I'm mre than happy to be the mad auntie. I can hand them back when i've had enough!!!

I cant as i am now sterile after getting a very pointy heel in the bollocks at the weekend !

4 kids are enough thanks, besides which, I can't anymore *hangs out flags n banners and does a quick jig* Not to mention the fact that I can;t stand kids, 'orrible things. I definitely never was one
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"Always look on the bright side of life..... tetum tetumtetumtetum....."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHPOzQzk9Qo

In the past..I have always said "NO!" to having children..

Now..I'm thinking maybe.

No more for me thanks...15 years is too much of a gap methinks

I would like to have a child or two at some point, but I would have to be in a good place in life and with the right person. I do think about it, but I have to find a woman who will let me touch her first
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i want more than 5.