Ever met one of those girls who seems to think that her viginity is being sought by everyman in Cristendom and beyond. That somehow is a sacred artifact. To be honest I can't think of anything more boring than sleeping with a virgin as they are often clueless. Some might say that its fun to teach but if I dont have the time. What say you lot?

Why is this a male only thread? Do men not have viginity to lose? lol.
And what about gay women...that sleep with women... are they excluded from here too?

i couldn't care either way.

Got more chances of finding a living dinosaur than a virgin these days!

I know a couple of women who claim to be virgins but I wouldn’t bet on it

Yeah have often wonder if de-flowering has to involve penatration or not? I suppose what Im saying is that when I was younger and slept with virgins I always found it a bit boring. I always hoped they had some experience so they could teach me a thing or two. Luckly at the age of 17 I met such a woman who seemed to know everything even some stuff Id never thought of I had the best time ever. And yes safe love was practised. Couldnt really subscribe to the love thing at that age as I was only 17 and had no concept of what that word even ment.

almostpurrrfect wrote:

Why is this a male only thread? Do men not have viginity to lose? lol. And what about gay women...that sleep with women... are they excluded from here too?

Losing your viginity would involve penetration of some kind, I'd imagine. Even between two girls.... fingers, maybe? lol. I dunno... I guess everyone is so wrapped up in actually getting it on with people that we don't stop to think what it means.

When I first actually and properly slept with a man, I was too young to understand the repurcussions of what I was doing. And too young to invest emotionally in it, either. I have also taken a few guy's virginity and found them to be just as nervous as women when they lose theirs. Sometimes,....they would be so nervous that premature ejaculation raised it's head...and lowered theirs lol.
But at the end of the day, when all is said and done..... everybody needs to start somewhere....and....I think it would be quite a challenge and a turn on to know that the girl you're seeing needs to be taught how to make love.

Yeah but cheese grater blow jobs are no fun

i lost my v to another who was a virgin too what a funny night!! neither of us knew what we was doing and it wasnt serious love it was fun as its meant to be!!

I was quite a late starter to be honest i held off with my first boyfriend because it didnt feel right between us. When i met my boyfriend after that i slept with him within a week because it was the right time. It was really something special and i will always remember it.

My best friend approached me to take his virginity which was a really strange experience but a few years after he wrote me a letter saying how nice it was to think of that night and how special it had been for him.

And my first time with a woman wasn't really up to much but i thought it rocked. I agree with purrs post some blokes dont find the thing special some do but its always nice to teach someone, and everyone has to start somewhere. I think men think if you are a virgin you have to be handled with care and that puts them off, for me it was a case of time and respect.

My first time was really sweet. Nice remembering it too