I know that with a marry buddy, there's no real NEED to set the scene for seduction....but....it's nice to do hehe.

A few years ago I was very into aromatherapy, and so I have a few personal blends of oils, for ...one use or another.
So I like to start off by lighting some oil burners in various rooms so that a heady scent permeats the air as soon as my "date" walks in, (bearing a bottle of wine, of course). The particular scent that shall be wafting about is called....Passion. A blend of ylang-ylang, vanilla and jasmine.
There will be no lights on, of course. Instead the room shall be full of shadows thrown from various sized candles. A glass of wine shall be poured and we will either sit on the sofa or the bed, depending on which room we start out in. The motions of "conversation" shall have to be paced through and the odd touch here and there, a slight laugh, lowered eyes and fingers lightly dancing along the stem of a wine glass.
Of course at some point some teasing reference will be made about my talent for blending oils for different uses, one of which is massage....a thing I know a thing or two about. The bait will be taken, the hook sunk. All I have to do is....reel him in. Naturally this is a game we will have played many many times before, but it never gets old.
So... off comes his top... and he will lay down on the bed (unless of course we haven't progressed to the bedroom, and this is where the many throws I have laying around the living room, come in) and I will straddle his lower back, drizzling some oil on his back....I COULD warm it with my hands, but let's face it...this is all about sensation...and the cold oil and my warm hands are a wonderful sensation.
The thing about massage oils is this. There are many different types. There's relaxing oil, sports oil, invigorating oil...and the one we're going for....sensual oil. A blend of essential oils, mixed with carrier oils, to set the mood. A bit Sandalwood, Rose abs, and Jasmine abs. A drizzle of Ylang, and Spikenard mixed in Sweet Almond oil...
Use the balls of your thumbs, fingertips, and the heels of your hands to work upwards and outwards.... work out any kinks that might be in the flesh, any knots in the muscles....he'll soon be moaning and groaning under you.
You could pretend to let fall a drop of wine onto his slippery skin...and lick it off.... but I can guarantee that he'll be lying very uncomfortably on his front by the time you're finished....

Afterwards....the mood is essentially set.... carry on.... to its finale *wink*
How do the rest of you set the scene?????

edited by twistedvoilet

That could work too

All sounds very complicated. I usually get her a bottle of wine and a bag of pork scratching and ask if there’s any chance of a shag?

Words like “Neanderthal” and “caveman” has been used in the past

well i cook, ..............sometimes

You don't need to go to all that trouble for a bloke. You really don't.

If a bloke is honest, probably the best way to seduce him is to lose the gag reflex. We're simple, simple creatures really.

Gag reflex? What's that?

Rofl!!!

Do you really want to heave and most likely puke on a guy?
To be honest...you should take a leaf out of Madonna's book and try it with a wine bottle!

Most men are not the romantic type as chikhai said....they just want to get down to business most of the time.
Probably an effort could be made by the man you love and loves you back (if you are lucky)
However, almostpurrrfect, you definitely know how to seduce someone.... lol I would join the Q to be seduced like that

Well my little dark rose..... better join it quick!