Well, you have to have a VERY low libido (that's both of you) for it to work!

Unless you are both virgins and waiting for the Big Day and stare at the 4 walls 24/7 so you don't meet anybody else......


I personally would never ever get started on that road.

Horses for courses though.

I have a friend who met her now-husband in a local pub. He's in the royal marines and its nothing for him to go away for 7 months at a stretch. But they fell in love and married before he did any long stints, you know?

I personally can't understand people who fall in so called love with the written word on their computer monitor.......totally inane if you ask me.

But 'being apart' is a totally different kettle of cabbage.... like my friend who's hubby is in the navy.

Live for the moment, ...you never know what may happen. I'm, quite close to some one who lives overseas but don’t allow the what if’s or the fact that she lives so far away enter your mind. If your happy right now, …just live in the moment.