I have this posted somewhere else...But I'd be interested in the opinions of all here, as well.

Some people consider very sexually active people as sluts, tarts and so on. Mostly it's women this applies to. Whereas men are studs, casanova's, etc.

My view is this. Whatever force made us, made us with sexual desires and sexual drives. And the ability to take pleasure from intercourse. If we weren't meant to partake in the pleasures of the flesh as often as we felt like it...well then we'd only come into season once a year with the rest of the mammals. And if we were only meant to copulate to further the human race, to conceive, to bear child and thus bring the circle of life on, well then why do women have that all sensitive little nub of excitement? The clitoris? In a place outside, totally apart from the baby-making-factory? And why is a man's g-spot up his arse?

A lot of people (Holy Rollers, mostly) will tell you that love is a sin. But is it really? Or are we supposed to choose one partner, like penguins, and mate with them for life, and no one else? If that were so, why do we feel desire for people other than our partners? The flesh is weak and willing. Must our spirits be strong to resist this......sin? Or is it perfectly natural to lay with as many partners as we wish?

Well, there isn’t anything wrong with it as long as your truly happy with that sort of lifestyle. A lot of people (men and women) are increasingly drawn to this sort of life because they are either too busy or simply cant be arsed to invest the time and energy to cultivate a healthy relationship. Have done it myself a lot in the past and sometimes still do, ….but I don’t get the same buzz out of it that I used to, ..I suppose I’ve got to the age now that I want something a bit more fulfilling than a casual jump. Dare I say it, ….love is the ultimate high, and love with someone you love is far more enjoyable than any casual encounter.

Oh, and as for the male g spot, …that’s something im quite happy to never have discovered lol

I agree that love with someone you love would be more explosive.
It's just hard to find that one person that you can love with today's casual attitude towards relationships.

That's the beauty of marry buddies, hunni. They know all your likes and dislikes already.... they call over, get the job done and then you kiss them at the door and say you'll call...but you don't... not until you want them over again lol.

Apart from when one stands you up

So I've ditched him lol

I have a supply of them

Well as I mentioned earlier... I don't call names unless I'm totall lost to the world. So I never have that problem! lol.
Although...I am down to two fb's now and think it's about time I find a new one.

If its any consulation purrfect Im a slut well I used to be but I came to realise that Lust is like the Terminator, you cant reason with it you cant bargin with it and it absolutely will not stop until you are dead. Cant help but think though I might have better spent my time and effort on other activities besides just love.

Certainly not judging anyone, ..but from a strictly personal standpoint I wouldn’t be attracted to someone with a lot of sexual partners on the go.

I'm going to answer that with the all round statement...... meh lol

I actually prefer women who has had many past "encounters". It exudes confidence which is always very nice

it's the "exuding" part that id be worried about lmao

The day I meet a man who can completely satisfy me in every way, including the bedroom..... then I will give up any and all fb's, casual dates and anything else.
So....looks like the fb's are with me for life lmao

I think I should like to try this thing called love that everyone is talking about here. Is it very difficult? I notice from the posts in this thread that this love thing requires a partner (or multiple partners) - is this obligatory, or can one do this love thing on their own?