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17.07.2008, 09:31 quote

mountable
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Is it just me or does a mans sex drive start to wane after 40, at one point its all i used to think about now it just doesnt seem to be the same, does anyone know of an aphrodisiac that actually works for males, I want that feeling back, hell im only 42. I can still perform its not an errection issue its the urge thats missing.

Cheers for now.

 

17.07.2008, 12:45 quote

scaramuccia

Labido?

Urban dictionary has a lot to answer for .....

 

18.07.2008, 13:28 quote

Bliss23
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Maybe you should ask a shrink this question. I'm not kiddin'. I think it's a psychological thing. If you don't feel like going to one, then you could ask your question on Allexperts.com or on Yahoo answers.
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19.07.2008, 20:00 quote

cymrubeats

Get yourself an inflatable clown.

 

19.07.2008, 21:35 quote

rocketgirl
rocketgirl Joined: 17 Jun 2008 Posts: 1241 Location: United Kingdom, England, Hampshire
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Go talk to your doctor. Seriously. No, its not particularly normal for a guy your age to suddenly have a libido loss. Even gradual. It could be a number of things, are you on regular medication? Some can reduce your interest.
If you are into homeopathic remedies, try zinc, magnesium, there are several others that can help too.
But best to talk to your GP first, could be a hormone problem, psychological (depression, stress, worry, lack of good sleep, to name a few).

 

19.07.2008, 21:52 quote

megalone

It is all in your head.


When I say that, I mean that it isn't so much a physical thing, more a mental issue.

Have you got other stresses/things on your mind at the moment?

 

19.07.2008, 22:05 quote

rocketgirl
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megalone wrote:
It is all in your head.


When I say that, I mean that it isn't so much a physical thing, more a mental issue.

Have you got other stresses/things on your mind at the moment?


I am inclinded to disagree. If he's "interested in being interested" that sounds less psychological than physiological.
When you are stressed, depressed etc. you lose interest. Period. You dont wish you were interested. (I would think?).
I would defo recommend talking with his GP.

 

19.07.2008, 22:37 quote

megalone

Either that or invest in some good porn...

 

19.07.2008, 22:39 quote

rocketgirl
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Offering a loan from your private library Megs?

 

20.07.2008, 03:46 quote

megalone

If he is into 'interspecies erotica', I'm the man for the job....

 

22.07.2008, 06:34 quote

Bliss23
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22.07.2008, 10:41 quote

choochi0
choochi0 Joined: 13 May 2008 Posts: 3135 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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megalone wrote:
If he is into 'interspecies erotica', I'm the man for the job....


You could start a goat swapping forum.

 

22.07.2008, 11:33 quote

megalone

choochi0 wrote:
megalone wrote:
If he is into 'interspecies erotica', I'm the man for the job....


You could start a goat swapping forum.



Hey hey, let's not get ahead of ourselves here.

I'm fine with pictures and movies, but MY goat is a one man goat.

A goat is for life, not just for one night stands.....

 

22.07.2008, 22:35 quote

choochi0
choochi0 Joined: 13 May 2008 Posts: 3135 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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Well you should keep a better eye on your goat cos she's been up to no good whilst you have had your back turned.

 

23.07.2008, 00:34 quote

titwhipper
Joined: 17 Apr 2008 Posts: 1363 Location: United Kingdom, England, Hampshire
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test for cortizone and testostirone levels

take up an active sport
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