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03.07.2007, 21:38 quote

Damien24
Joined: 16 Jun 2007 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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Sorry if this has been asked already,but I don't see myself searching every single page to find out.

I have been sending messeges to someone in particular and according to my outbox,they have not recieved a single one.
Now,since I don't want to seem like a internet stalker(faaags),
can someone tell if if I have been blocked or is something else going on?
I have never spoken to this person on any occassion and the person in question has viewed my profile on several occassions.
(maybe out of morbid curiosity?!?)
I have no idea if what is happening.

If someone can give me some insight, I would be extremely greatful.


Damien

 

03.07.2007, 22:30 quote

imperfect

Maybe the person deleted your messages.. Confused I'm not sure really

 

03.07.2007, 23:14 quote

Damien24
Joined: 16 Jun 2007 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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that is what I am trying to figure out.
if they have deleted my messeges,then why are they still in my outbox and why do they keep going to my profile? Confused

 

03.07.2007, 23:23 quote

Anonymous

i know this sounds like im being a complete b****, but when i get a new message from someone, i always checkout their profile first to see if im gonna be interested- if im not, i just dont open the email, so then i dont have to send an awkward reply! mybe shes doing the same?!x

 

04.07.2007, 09:32 quote

Damien24
Joined: 16 Jun 2007 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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yea...
that does sound like a complete b***h. I iunderstand where you are comming from,but guys don't appreciate being ignored just as much as women and it is messed up for both parties to thats it's ok to do.I figure everyone warrents the respect of a response,regardless of the outcome.
But I guess I am one of the few.
Fern86.. please don't get me wrong, I am not having a go at you personally,I do thank you for your input.
I just figure if she was blowing me off,why do I constantly find her name popping up on my viewed list? and it is a new view every time. Maybe she is pointing me out to all her friends to have a laugh?!
The main reason I have been trying to contact her is because I am almost 100% I already know her from a few years back and we got a long great back then.
It must not be her or she was lying the whole time.
I do think it's funny though that people have only suggested that the problem could only be her not liking me and that there is no way there could be a legitimate problem...
oh well.
I'll just quit and let it be.

thank you all for your input.


D

 

04.07.2007, 16:01 quote

Anonymous

sorry i thought i should explain. by "not intrested " i mean men who message me and that are 50 something and are looking for extra marital affairs- which i am in no way into. i dont particularly want to open these messages either.
im not insinuating that this is what shes doing at all- for starters ur not that kind of guy!
this is merely my explaination as to why i dont open my messages .x

 

04.07.2007, 16:17 quote

Anonymous

there are settings so that you can recieve the mesage by email, so you dont even have to open it to read it.
and then, that person could be deleting it before reading it.

also they may have bookmarked your page, to come on the site, hence why you are getting her viewing you alot

 

04.07.2007, 16:40 quote

Anonymous

Damien24 wrote:
yea...
that does sound like a complete b***h. I iunderstand where you are comming from,but guys don't appreciate being ignored just as much as women and it is messed up for both parties to thats it's ok to do.I figure everyone warrents the respect of a response,regardless of the outcome.
But I guess I am one of the few.


Am I the only one that doesn't care if someone who doesn't want to speak to me ignores me ? I think it's fair enough, personally, because a "thanks but no thanks" message is the sort of thing that some people just don't like writing, or don't know how to word it. So, in a way, saying nothing at all is perhaps the easiest and kindest thing to do.

 

04.07.2007, 16:45 quote

Anonymous

CharmingDave wrote:
Damien24 wrote:
yea...
that does sound like a complete b***h. I iunderstand where you are comming from,but guys don't appreciate being ignored just as much as women and it is messed up for both parties to thats it's ok to do.I figure everyone warrents the respect of a response,regardless of the outcome.
But I guess I am one of the few.


Am I the only one that doesn't care if someone who doesn't want to speak to me ignores me ? I think it's fair enough, personally, because a "thanks but no thanks" message is the sort of thing that some people just don't like writing, or don't know how to word it. So, in a way, saying nothing at all is perhaps the easiest and kindest thing to do.


I tend to reply, and say no thanks. if they reply back it just gets ruder...

 

04.07.2007, 17:01 quote

Anonymous

CharmingDave wrote:
Damien24 wrote:
yea...
that does sound like a complete b***h. I iunderstand where you are comming from,but guys don't appreciate being ignored just as much as women and it is messed up for both parties to thats it's ok to do.I figure everyone warrents the respect of a response,regardless of the outcome.
But I guess I am one of the few.


Am I the only one that doesn't care if someone who doesn't want to speak to me ignores me ? I think it's fair enough, personally, because a "thanks but no thanks" message is the sort of thing that some people just don't like writing, or don't know how to word it. So, in a way, saying nothing at all is perhaps the easiest and kindest thing to do.
but sending a message saying no thanks, sometimes causes more problems, as they want to know why you dont like them, and sometimes it gets nasty

 

05.07.2007, 23:27 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
CharmingDave wrote:
Damien24 wrote:
yea...
that does sound like a complete b***h. I iunderstand where you are comming from,but guys don't appreciate being ignored just as much as women and it is messed up for both parties to thats it's ok to do.I figure everyone warrents the respect of a response,regardless of the outcome.
But I guess I am one of the few.


Am I the only one that doesn't care if someone who doesn't want to speak to me ignores me ? I think it's fair enough, personally, because a "thanks but no thanks" message is the sort of thing that some people just don't like writing, or don't know how to word it. So, in a way, saying nothing at all is perhaps the easiest and kindest thing to do.
but sending a message saying no thanks, sometimes causes more problems, as they want to know why you dont like them, and sometimes it gets nasty


And if they get nasty you just press delete Smile

I've had a problem with the flirtbox messaging system more then once where I would reply to a message and the message wouldn't be received or the message sent to me hasn't arrived in my inbox =) So there could always be that possibility! I'm thinking it's some dodgy code in the message system.

 

06.07.2007, 01:09 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
]but sending a message saying no thanks, sometimes causes more problems, as they want to know why you dont like them, and sometimes it gets nasty


Yeah, there is that possibility too.

 

08.07.2007, 15:42 quote

Bliss23
Bliss23 Joined: 21 Mar 2007 Posts: 5276 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Edinburgh
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Ey. My outbox says there are 5 messages not sent in it and when I open it I can only see two not sent (no other pages to be viewed - 1,2 etc). Besides. I send messages, nobody answers, I even received a message, answered it and no answer again. I'm sure this might be just people not wanting to answer, but I wanna know for sure. Can I message anyone around here who could tell me they've received my message? Very Happy PLease?

 

08.07.2007, 15:50 quote

Anonymous

Bliss23 wrote:
Ey. My outbox says there are 5 messages not sent in it and when I open it I can only see two not sent (no other pages to be viewed - 1,2 etc). Besides. I send messages, nobody answers, I even received a message, answered it and no answer again. I'm sure this might be just people not wanting to answer, but I wanna know for sure. Can I message anyone around here who could tell me they've received my message? Very Happy PLease?


You managed to send and receive emails to me just fine a couple of days ago Smile

 

08.07.2007, 15:51 quote

Anonymous

Bliss23 wrote:
Ey. My outbox says there are 5 messages not sent in it and when I open it I can only see two not sent (no other pages to be viewed - 1,2 etc). Besides. I send messages, nobody answers, I even received a message, answered it and no answer again. I'm sure this might be just people not wanting to answer, but I wanna know for sure. Can I message anyone around here who could tell me they've received my message? Very Happy PLease?


message me if you like

 
 
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