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03.07.2007, 21:38 quote
Sorry if this has been asked already,but I don't see myself searching every single page to find out.
I have been sending messeges to someone in particular and according to my outbox,they have not recieved a single one.
Now,since I don't want to seem like a internet stalker(faaags),
can someone tell if if I have been blocked or is something else going on?
I have never spoken to this person on any occassion and the person in question has viewed my profile on several occassions.
(maybe out of morbid curiosity?!?)
I have no idea if what is happening.
If someone can give me some insight, I would be extremely greatful.
Damien
03.07.2007, 23:14 quote
that is what I am trying to figure out.
if they have deleted my messeges,then why are they still in my outbox and why do they keep going to my profile?
03.07.2007, 23:23 quote
i know this sounds like im being a complete b****, but when i get a new message from someone, i always checkout their profile first to see if im gonna be interested- if im not, i just dont open the email, so then i dont have to send an awkward reply! mybe shes doing the same?!x
04.07.2007, 09:32 quote
yea...
that does sound like a complete b***h. I iunderstand where you are comming from,but guys don't appreciate being ignored just as much as women and it is messed up for both parties to thats it's ok to do.I figure everyone warrents the respect of a response,regardless of the outcome.
But I guess I am one of the few.
Fern86.. please don't get me wrong, I am not having a go at you personally,I do thank you for your input.
I just figure if she was blowing me off,why do I constantly find her name popping up on my viewed list? and it is a new view every time. Maybe she is pointing me out to all her friends to have a laugh?!
The main reason I have been trying to contact her is because I am almost 100% I already know her from a few years back and we got a long great back then.
It must not be her or she was lying the whole time.
I do think it's funny though that people have only suggested that the problem could only be her not liking me and that there is no way there could be a legitimate problem...
oh well.
I'll just quit and let it be.
thank you all for your input.
D
04.07.2007, 16:01 quote
sorry i thought i should explain. by "not intrested " i mean men who message me and that are 50 something and are looking for extra marital affairs- which i am in no way into. i dont particularly want to open these messages either.
im not insinuating that this is what shes doing at all- for starters ur not that kind of guy!
this is merely my explaination as to why i dont open my messages .x
04.07.2007, 16:17 quote
there are settings so that you can recieve the mesage by email, so you dont even have to open it to read it.
and then, that person could be deleting it before reading it.
also they may have bookmarked your page, to come on the site, hence why you are getting her viewing you alot
04.07.2007, 16:40 quote
| Damien24 wrote: |
| yea...
that does sound like a complete b***h. I iunderstand where you are comming from,but guys don't appreciate being ignored just as much as women and it is messed up for both parties to thats it's ok to do.I figure everyone warrents the respect of a response,regardless of the outcome. But I guess I am one of the few. |
Am I the only one that doesn't care if someone who doesn't want to speak to me ignores me ? I think it's fair enough, personally, because a "thanks but no thanks" message is the sort of thing that some people just don't like writing, or don't know how to word it. So, in a way, saying nothing at all is perhaps the easiest and kindest thing to do.
04.07.2007, 16:45 quote
| CharmingDave wrote: | ||
Am I the only one that doesn't care if someone who doesn't want to speak to me ignores me ? I think it's fair enough, personally, because a "thanks but no thanks" message is the sort of thing that some people just don't like writing, or don't know how to word it. So, in a way, saying nothing at all is perhaps the easiest and kindest thing to do. |
I tend to reply, and say no thanks. if they reply back it just gets ruder...
04.07.2007, 17:01 quote
| CharmingDave wrote: | ||
Am I the only one that doesn't care if someone who doesn't want to speak to me ignores me ? I think it's fair enough, personally, because a "thanks but no thanks" message is the sort of thing that some people just don't like writing, or don't know how to word it. So, in a way, saying nothing at all is perhaps the easiest and kindest thing to do. |
05.07.2007, 23:27 quote
| twistedvoilet wrote: | ||||
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And if they get nasty you just press delete
I've had a problem with the flirtbox messaging system more then once where I would reply to a message and the message wouldn't be received or the message sent to me hasn't arrived in my inbox =) So there could always be that possibility! I'm thinking it's some dodgy code in the message system.
06.07.2007, 01:09 quote
| twistedvoilet wrote: |
| ]but sending a message saying no thanks, sometimes causes more problems, as they want to know why you dont like them, and sometimes it gets nasty |
Yeah, there is that possibility too.
08.07.2007, 15:42 quote
Ey. My outbox says there are 5 messages not sent in it and when I open it I can only see two not sent (no other pages to be viewed - 1,2 etc). Besides. I send messages, nobody answers, I even received a message, answered it and no answer again. I'm sure this might be just people not wanting to answer, but I wanna know for sure. Can I message anyone around here who could tell me they've received my message?
PLease?
08.07.2007, 15:50 quote
| Bliss23 wrote: |
| Ey. My outbox says there are 5 messages not sent in it and when I open it I can only see two not sent (no other pages to be viewed - 1,2 etc). Besides. I send messages, nobody answers, I even received a message, answered it and no answer again. I'm sure this might be just people not wanting to answer, but I wanna know for sure. Can I message anyone around here who could tell me they've received my message? |
You managed to send and receive emails to me just fine a couple of days ago
08.07.2007, 15:51 quote
| Bliss23 wrote: |
| Ey. My outbox says there are 5 messages not sent in it and when I open it I can only see two not sent (no other pages to be viewed - 1,2 etc). Besides. I send messages, nobody answers, I even received a message, answered it and no answer again. I'm sure this might be just people not wanting to answer, but I wanna know for sure. Can I message anyone around here who could tell me they've received my message? |
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