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03.07.2007, 23:30 quote

imperfect

Maybe the person deleted your messages.. Confused I'm not sure really

 
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04.07.2007, 00:23 quote

Anonymous

i know this sounds like im being a complete b****, but when i get a new message from someone, i always checkout their profile first to see if im gonna be interested- if im not, i just dont open the email, so then i dont have to send an awkward reply! mybe shes doing the same?!x

 
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04.07.2007, 17:01 quote

Anonymous

sorry i thought i should explain. by "not intrested " i mean men who message me and that are 50 something and are looking for extra marital affairs- which i am in no way into. i dont particularly want to open these messages either.
im not insinuating that this is what shes doing at all- for starters ur not that kind of guy!
this is merely my explaination as to why i dont open my messages .x

 
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04.07.2007, 17:17 quote

Anonymous

there are settings so that you can recieve the mesage by email, so you dont even have to open it to read it.
and then, that person could be deleting it before reading it.

also they may have bookmarked your page, to come on the site, hence why you are getting her viewing you alot

 
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04.07.2007, 17:40 quote

Anonymous

Damien24 wrote:
yea...
that does sound like a complete b***h. I iunderstand where you are comming from,but guys don't appreciate being ignored just as much as women and it is messed up for both parties to thats it's ok to do.I figure everyone warrents the respect of a response,regardless of the outcome.
But I guess I am one of the few.


Am I the only one that doesn't care if someone who doesn't want to speak to me ignores me ? I think it's fair enough, personally, because a "thanks but no thanks" message is the sort of thing that some people just don't like writing, or don't know how to word it. So, in a way, saying nothing at all is perhaps the easiest and kindest thing to do.

 
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04.07.2007, 17:45 quote

Anonymous

CharmingDave wrote:
Damien24 wrote:
yea...
that does sound like a complete b***h. I iunderstand where you are comming from,but guys don't appreciate being ignored just as much as women and it is messed up for both parties to thats it's ok to do.I figure everyone warrents the respect of a response,regardless of the outcome.
But I guess I am one of the few.


Am I the only one that doesn't care if someone who doesn't want to speak to me ignores me ? I think it's fair enough, personally, because a "thanks but no thanks" message is the sort of thing that some people just don't like writing, or don't know how to word it. So, in a way, saying nothing at all is perhaps the easiest and kindest thing to do.


I tend to reply, and say no thanks. if they reply back it just gets ruder...

 
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04.07.2007, 18:01 quote

Anonymous

CharmingDave wrote:
Damien24 wrote:
yea...
that does sound like a complete b***h. I iunderstand where you are comming from,but guys don't appreciate being ignored just as much as women and it is messed up for both parties to thats it's ok to do.I figure everyone warrents the respect of a response,regardless of the outcome.
But I guess I am one of the few.


Am I the only one that doesn't care if someone who doesn't want to speak to me ignores me ? I think it's fair enough, personally, because a "thanks but no thanks" message is the sort of thing that some people just don't like writing, or don't know how to word it. So, in a way, saying nothing at all is perhaps the easiest and kindest thing to do.
but sending a message saying no thanks, sometimes causes more problems, as they want to know why you dont like them, and sometimes it gets nasty

 
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06.07.2007, 00:27 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
CharmingDave wrote:
Damien24 wrote:
yea...
that does sound like a complete b***h. I iunderstand where you are comming from,but guys don't appreciate being ignored just as much as women and it is messed up for both parties to thats it's ok to do.I figure everyone warrents the respect of a response,regardless of the outcome.
But I guess I am one of the few.


Am I the only one that doesn't care if someone who doesn't want to speak to me ignores me ? I think it's fair enough, personally, because a "thanks but no thanks" message is the sort of thing that some people just don't like writing, or don't know how to word it. So, in a way, saying nothing at all is perhaps the easiest and kindest thing to do.
but sending a message saying no thanks, sometimes causes more problems, as they want to know why you dont like them, and sometimes it gets nasty


And if they get nasty you just press delete Smile

I've had a problem with the flirtbox messaging system more then once where I would reply to a message and the message wouldn't be received or the message sent to me hasn't arrived in my inbox =) So there could always be that possibility! I'm thinking it's some dodgy code in the message system.

 
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06.07.2007, 02:09 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
]but sending a message saying no thanks, sometimes causes more problems, as they want to know why you dont like them, and sometimes it gets nasty


Yeah, there is that possibility too.

 
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08.07.2007, 16:50 quote

Anonymous

Bliss23 wrote:
Ey. My outbox says there are 5 messages not sent in it and when I open it I can only see two not sent (no other pages to be viewed - 1,2 etc). Besides. I send messages, nobody answers, I even received a message, answered it and no answer again. I'm sure this might be just people not wanting to answer, but I wanna know for sure. Can I message anyone around here who could tell me they've received my message? Very Happy PLease?


You managed to send and receive emails to me just fine a couple of days ago Smile

 
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08.07.2007, 16:51 quote

Anonymous

Bliss23 wrote:
Ey. My outbox says there are 5 messages not sent in it and when I open it I can only see two not sent (no other pages to be viewed - 1,2 etc). Besides. I send messages, nobody answers, I even received a message, answered it and no answer again. I'm sure this might be just people not wanting to answer, but I wanna know for sure. Can I message anyone around here who could tell me they've received my message? Very Happy PLease?


message me if you like

 
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08.07.2007, 17:01 quote

Anonymous

got it and replied bliss

 
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08.07.2007, 17:04 quote

Anonymous

Bliss23 wrote:
Don't have any reply yet. Maybe that's where it's stuck. Hope I get it. Very Happy


Mmmm thats a bit weird? sorry cant help anymore, but one of the mods should see this later and maybe shine some light on it

 
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08.07.2007, 17:10 quote

Anonymous

is it maybe your settings .... who and cant contact you? just a thought

 
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