Just had a date with a girl from Germany that lives in London....

First of all, we went for a walk to one of the parks...the one near Bakerstreet.
The weather was really nice today - I had the idea that we might also organize a Flirtbox picknick in one of the parks in London as a Flirtbox event some time in the future...would be cool.

Then we went for a walk along the Thames.....then towards Big Ben...Trafalgar Square and took a bus to Camden town where she lives.

We went to a really good Italian restaurant there.....(yes, Italian again!)...but honestly, this one was even slightly better then the one last night! You have to check out this one.....I can tell you the name later on....can't remember it right now.....

This girl didn't know it was my website so she told me what she didn't like about the website and also that she does not go on it anymore as she got so many messages of some pervs....asking how much it costs to have love with her etc....

Hm...I think I need to find some way to get rid of that problem......somehow. I am not a girl so I have not experienced problems like these myself.

wahoo go Toby you sly fox, no wonder you were not drinking that much, needed a clear head for the date ehh;) Glade you had a nice day

Not drinking that much? I have not even had that much alcohol last Oktoberfest I generally don't drink that much.....but let me think...there was the wine at the Italian restaurant...then this lemon stuff....and later on at the other bar the highly combustible drink...whatever that was....tasted of fennel somehow

You can do that here too...just click on the "block contact" symbol

when you received a message....the problem is when women get lots of them they would need to block people all the time if there are many pervs around.

Some women don't mind that much and just ignore them/delete their messages or block those senders...others are just offended and even don't come back again to the site after some of those messages of a few idtiots.

Maybe Toby if you put something at the bottom of each sent mail as a default along the lines of

'If this message is abusive please report it by clicking here - we take our members safety and enjoyment seriously'

Will not stop it happening but at least the members that do not know the site too well will know that you care.