Hey people I am here looking for someone real not just a one night fling. I don't like going to night clubs as they are just meat markets these days and there seems to be alot of profiles that females post but nothing about themseleves... so i have to ask are they hoping a picture is going to find them the person that they are looking for??
Can someone please give me a reason why i should bother to stop and look at their profiles...

Hi! it's men as well as women who don't write in their profiles... and I have to say, you don't really have much in your profile either I was really surprised that you have the bare minimum after having read your post here.

So your not looking for a one night fling ........ but im the process of travelling the world ...... how does that work then ? Would you settle in London if you found the right girl or expect her to up and leave with you when you go off on your travels ???

thats a fair comment but i am in the process of updateing it now.
and i have to admit i haven't gone out of my way to look at male profiles.

Aw so you're in the process of updating your profile, in that case I'll let you off, I had thought the same as AM too.
You might find it useful to see the thread about people's profiles as there are plently of comments about what people like and don't like to see.

anemarie, i don't know where life is taking me yet or who i will meet along the way. But when i meet the right person i am sure we will settle somewhere we both like and i don't know where i would want to settle in the world yet as i have not met the right person to share the rest of my life with yet.

It's a big place, the world, so it could take a long time finding out!
But when you meet the right person, she might want to find out with you!

To improve your profile, try these topics:
DATING > What puts you off about a persons profile?
DATING > Better Success (Tips & Advice)
The latter is an excellent post.
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It's a good thing that people who aren't compelled to offer more than visual information don't force themselves to.

It makes it very clear who is worth talking to, non?

Not many people have much of note to say anyhow.

Still waiting for grommit32s profile to have something on it..........

I think it's time for Handsel to start worrying about Alzheimers onset.

I can't believe you devoted an entire post to arguing against my (completely viable) answer to the topic in a blatantly argumentative style (direct responses to excerpts in quotations) and had the cheek to say I'm looking for an argument!

What exactly did yr post have to do with the subject matter?

And I am the one berated for not using correct 'forum etiquette'. Tsk.

Well i spent hours and hours answering all the questions, about where I see myself in 5 years, my entire lifes history etc in all those little boxes, to find it all vanished inside a week, so now i havent bothered doing it all again,

That and, if someone realy wants to know it will come up in conversation and they will find out