hi my name is katie and i have a two yr old son george he nearly died when hs was 16 months old and his dad was more bothered about going to a job centre course so he didnt lose his money i am trying my best on my own but how do you know if its good enough ????

Katie, you dont know, i take it you and your sons dad arnt seeing each other?
If you are a single parent, i would say your doing a good job.. and your proving that your better off without your ex-partner... though as i said i may be barking up the wrong tree here..