Someone hit the 'pause' button i think ...
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I think maybe social factor comes into this in a big way, As single parents we can find it hard to actually go out and meet people

We all fall into boxes I suppose

Single guy/girl with out a child would give it a go with someone that does

Or else they just dont want to take that on board when they dont really have to and wont have to till they have a child of there own I can kind of see how they would feel and why they wouldnt want to.

Or this is the box I fall into

Single mum/dad just cbf and find life much nicer, clamer alone there are more of this kind of parent than the currently looking I suppose.

Then with out sounding rude I think alot of singly parents dont want to have to take on someone else's child aswell walking contradiction when they are looking for someone thats not a parent LOL

Persoally I think dont look so hard and let it just happen, if we want to meet people we have to go out do stuff and well its hard so we turn to the internet not sure the internets the right place to meet a future partner alot of dodgyness goes on in internet land lol

Either way just a couple of ideas