just thought id say hey to everyone as im new on here and havent realy been on anything like this b4. so hey to every1

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You know what I made choice be a single parent,and there have been times that I QUESTIONED it.But I want to tell you of incident that happened that I knew I had gotten it right.We had just gotten out car at Walmart,this lady walked up to us.She told us she had been in that parking lot for 2 days oh yes she had infant,their car had broken down.They were from out town her husband was to be starting a job.But as of then they were stranded no place to go no way to get there.My daughter who is just turned 14,went right to phone called her pastor told him of the situation then stayed with them till pastor got there.He took them to motel payed their room rent for few days,then helped to get them a house.We are given signs and I consider this one for I was doubting myself at the time

A common belief is that we are Dole scroungers with nothing more interesting in our lives than Dr Phil. Some of us go against the grain and run our own businesses and still find time to raise happy, confident children.

If a man isn't impressed by our ability to do a two person job single handedly, and still have room for all the love we have, then he is shallow.

Another point to consider is that we would appear to have baggage - the father turning up and causing trouble - I wouldn't find that attractive. But that's not always the case.

WE ARE HUMANS NOT JUST PARENTS!!

id like to offer my opinion if nobody objects, i firmly believe that single women with children are far more attractive than single women without, one reason is because they dont have time to prance around trying to impress men flirting teasing and playing silly cum get me games which is pathetic, an all u barbies out there take not, thats if you can read, single mothers prove time and time again that they work hard, they have an immense ammount of love and devotion oozing out of them, they strive to obtain all the best they can for their kids and above all that they still look healthy happy and beautifull, any man who would rather have a barbie girl rather than a single mum is a totally self obsessd prat and only thinks about what he looks like with hi trophy girl, give me a single mum every time, the kids are a bonus as well because they have a personality of their own and they can make you laugh cry worry and be proud as you get to watch them grow into adults, FELLAS GET A GRIP, YOUR LOOKING IN THE WRONG DIRECTION, but sod em if they want to be used by a barbie golddigger then let em, SINGLE MUMS GET MY VOTE UR TOP OF MY LIST! peace and happiness to you all paul x x x,,,,,

You go girl. What you say is too true. I have a 5 year old daughter and me and her mum are cool. we work towards what is best for her even if we want to kill each other. I think that People(male or female) don't know the beuty or responsibility of having kids untill they have them. Being a parent has made me less interested in searching for love, or a partner because it takes all your time doin the best for your unconditionals. XXX

hey all

well i've just found myself to be a single mother, after 3 years of being with fuckwit i decided to end it cause there was no love there, we have a 8 month old son toghether, but hey ho life goes on & he can go fuckaduck for all i care lol

im a single parent but my kids are now grown up, daughter 16 lives with me. I dont mind a relationship with a woman with kids but , i know this may sound awful, would prefer kids who u can speak to - say i dunno ages 8 onwards, younger than that well its just piggin hard work and i been there and done that 3 times over. Dont mind helpin and lookin after kids that will listen and learn, that way I get feedback which i feel is essential if the relationship needs to progress. Lookin at it another way, i am 43 so a woman havin kids at 40 or so is just askin for hard work and i dont think my back will take all the bending

Hi everyone, my first post, as I'm new, and this seemed best place to post. I'm not a full time dad, in that I only get my kids every other weekend and holidays, so don't know if this counts to post on here?

Just got divorce thru last week, although been separated 4 1/2 yrs (split reasonably amicable and compared to some of the grief I've just read on here, we get on ok and no problems between us, so felt nothing on receipt of decree nisi). My boy and girl are both 10. Just had them for 6 days over half term, hell I miss them now.

My heart goes out to all you guys and gals on here in tough situations, I do realise how lucky I am.
Sorry if that doesn't sound right....

I know what you all mean, most of my m8s r blokes though and are great with my son, altho they just seem to be 'mates'.
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