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10.01.2010, 12:00 quote

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10.01.2010, 12:08 quote

annmarie5988

well this is age old arguement Sue ..... i know a few men who have the same few, its ok for them to sow there wild oats, but if they knew of any women that were the same would not want them as a girlfriend ..... a very old fashioned view but hey some men are dinosaurs.

I hope no one has called you that Sue and if they have ........ so what, its only words, we are all adults if we fancy a bit of lovin without the commitement whats the problem.

 

10.01.2010, 12:28 quote

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annmarie5988 wrote:
well this is age old arguement Sue ..... i know a few men who have the same few, its ok for them to sow there wild oats, but if they knew of any women that were the same would not want them as a girlfriend ..... a very old fashioned view but hey some men are dinosaurs.

I hope no one has called you that Sue and if they have ........ so what, its only words, we are all adults if we fancy a bit of lovin without the commitement whats the problem.


I was reading something about the subject and wondered whether today's thinking had changed much from the past. To be honest, I'm not bothered about names at my age so wouldn't lose any sleep if I was called something....... and then I remembered that there are 2 WORDS THAT I AM STILL SENSITIVE TO Crying or Very sad because they trigger something bad in my memory..... but at least I am aware of them so no major deal, just better not to be reminded of the things that can't be changed.
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10.01.2010, 14:05 quote

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From the male point of view (mine) I tend to be extremely non judgemental about anyones sexual past, i see no reason to ask or press to discuss it with potential partners. I think the only time i would start to worry is if a partner admitted to working as an escort then it becomes a question of exposure to sexual diseases, also i tend not to discuss this aspect of anyones life or mine with others it smacks of being a Jack the lad and boasting of notches on the bed post.
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10.01.2010, 14:40 quote

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well we all kno the varied definitions of "slut" ...there goes my 2 cents ((ha 2 cents, make it a few quid))
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10.01.2010, 15:19 quote

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Not so sure my question's really being answered here but I guess men behaving slutty are usually referred to as studs and jack-the-lads which kinda sounds like they're to be proud of their conquests and behaviour.
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10.01.2010, 16:08 quote

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Not sure younger women are now. as much as in our day.

But I have heard women use the reference as well as men, and have corrected women on it recently.

 

10.01.2010, 16:19 quote

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women should not really compare themselves to men, as lets be honest, we dont share the same 'moral' issues lol and women (well mostly younguns)go for the 'studs', 'jack-the-lads' and the pretty boy types and they kinda see it as a conquest to bag and hold on to these type of dudes, some even go as far as to sacrifice their sanity by tryin to change these 'studs' and hey it does work sometimes tho.. most men on the other hand, see "sluts" for what they are, aint no sanity to sacrifice there really lol its straight up wham bam and u'll be lucky if u hit the jackspot
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10.01.2010, 17:04 quote

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I saw somewhere mention that there are 20 words to describe slutty beahaviour in men, and 200 for women!!Not that I saw a list or anything, anyhow, that's why I brought it here for discussion.
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10.01.2010, 17:14 quote

missjb

Id like to see that list! But id say yeah there would be more for women than men, men can hardly go out looking like a complete whore, i mean there are girls that go out wearing just their underwear and im sorry if i see someone like that id think what a slut like all the men would!

 

12.01.2010, 01:27 quote

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I'm not actually sure about this, but I do tend to find it's the women that hand out these names more freely than men do.
I'm not judgemental, so if I call somebody a slut, it's always going to be a joke.
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17.01.2010, 22:27 quote

cagefighterlee

It's nothing to do with humans/the media, although they may amplify it it's down to nature.

Look at monkeys - it's perfectly acceptable for the male monkey's to bang a whole load of female monkey's whereas the female monkey's are meant to stick to one guy.

 

18.01.2010, 01:41 quote

bliss23

That is just sick. See that's why women tend to kill more men than the other way around. Twisted Evil

Oh and does the male monkey have a big banana? Coz then it's understandable... After all, love always goes through the stomach. =))

Oh and... How exactly does that answer the question? Because technically... You're just saying the same thing but for monkeys... Question being... Why do monkeys act like that?

And if we're on the subject... I've heard one particular species of monkeys, people and dolphins are the only species having love for the pure pleasure of it...


Meh... What am I on about anyway.

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18.01.2010, 15:55 quote

cagefighterlee

Bliss23 wrote:
That is just sick. See that's why women tend to kill more men than the other way around. Twisted Evil

Oh and does the male monkey have a big banana? Coz then it's understandable... After all, love always goes through the stomach. =))

Oh and... How exactly does that answer the question? Because technically... You're just saying the same thing but for monkeys... Question being... Why do monkeys act like that?

And if we're on the subject... I've heard one particular species of monkeys, people and dolphins are the only species having love for the pure pleasure of it...


Meh... What am I on about anyway.

I've missed you cage fighter lee. Stick around. =))


Big banana = winner for the lady nearly every time as long as he knows what he's doing.

Yes, I am saying it's the same with monkeys, this is the case because the male love in most instances (in animals too) is the physically more dominant one, meaning he has more freedom to do what he wants and marry any hole he can shove his brain into.

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18.01.2010, 18:04 quote

bliss23

There's your answer then, Sue. Very Happy

Men are considered winners if they frick lots of women (if the women are great it's even better), because they show how strong and bootiful they are...

Whereas women being, well technically, the weaker love, show how weak they are by doing exactly the same thing as men aka allowing so many to frick them (up lol).

Weird?

I'll say... However... If, par example, Monica Bellucci would frick around... I'd say she's a total knock out and consider the men SHE's fricking lucky and not her a hooker. LOL

That leads me to think that... If a woman is very strong and gorge (not necessarily in a physical way), she can act like a man and not be considered a whore. Am I right?

Another example is Samantha, in love and the city, or the women Steve Santagati kindly refers to as black widows. LOL

Hope this makes some sense.

And last but not least, if Monica Bellucci would frick Gerard Butler and then Christian Bale and then someone else like them... I'd pretty much say she's an ace, not a slut. LOL
Laughing

Also... One truly final thing... I think both men and women can be considered sluts when they just do it with practically anyone.

 
 
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