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Home >> Sex >> What would you do if somebody just wanted you for sex?
13.11.2006, 09:09 quote
| foxieroxy wrote: |
| Maybe, it sounds scientifically like that would be the reason, though I suppose from a woman's point of view I just find it a little disheartening
x x x |
Its not to say we all agree with being deceitful though. We left most of our animal instincts behind over a million years ago, and now we adhere to a contract underpinned by trust.
But I know some men that struggle to keep these animal instincts suppressed and have loads of affairs.
My mates have affairs with loads of different women, The women know the reputations of these men and know it is just a sexual thing with them. But it doesn't stop the women from wanting more from the men and complaining to me that the men just used them.
Proves the point of what we are discussing.
13.11.2006, 10:08 quote
Ah yes, those men have a reputation for womanising though. Unfortunately as you say i think the sex and love distinction is a male thing, not that some women dont have it, dont get me wrong, i just think men are able to do it more easily, as you say, due to primal instinct.
Funny how women havent evolved the same, so much as in we can distinguish between it much more easily now that reproduction isnt all we have in our minds.....
13.11.2006, 10:22 quote
| foxieroxy wrote: |
| Ah yes, those men have a reputation for womanising though. Unfortunately as you say i think the sex and love distinction is a male thing, not that some women dont have it, dont get me wrong, i just think men are able to do it more easily, as you say, due to primal instinct.
Funny how women havent evolved the same, so much as in we can distinguish between it much more easily now that reproduction isnt all we have in our minds..... |
Most men fight against their instinct of spreading their seed.
But over the last 30 years or so women have been fighting against their main animal instinct which is nurturing young....that is what they were put on this earth for, and most women were happy with that until the last 20-30 years. Hence the reason for a lot of confusion now amongst younger women IMO, eg this worry about being on the shelf. But is causing confusion amongst men as well.
13.11.2006, 11:19 quote
| Aradon wrote: | ||
Nope, I treasure sex in a relationship, but you don't need to be in a relationship to appreciate it. Passion is another part of a relationship, it's another strain of lust, except lust is normally felt between those not in a relationship. The reason most blokes can seperarate the 2 so easily is because 9 times out of 10, blokes live in a physical world, females in an emtional world. If you get my meaning. The fact I can enjoy sex for sex, doesn't mean I don't treasure it in a relationship, for example I would happily have a threesome with someone I had met in a club etc, but I would be uncomfortable if a partner wanted one. Meaningless sex is good, but imo being able to get "lost" in someone so deeply is far better 
Again, sex and love are 2 VERY different things. |
I totally agree, I wouldnt say being this way is just the way men think either.
13.11.2006, 15:41 quote
| Jeggea wrote: | ||
Most men fight against their instinct of spreading their seed. But over the last 30 years or so women have been fighting against their main animal instinct which is nurturing young....that is what they were put on this earth for, and most women were happy with that until the last 20-30 years. Hence the reason for a lot of confusion now amongst younger women IMO, eg this worry about being on the shelf. But is causing confusion amongst men as well. |
If women were *supposedly* put on this earth for nurturing young, then what were men put on this earth for?
13.11.2006, 15:59 quote
| lilmissssunshine wrote: | ||||
If women were *supposedly* put on this earth for nurturing young, then what were men put on this earth for? |
Inseminate females...that is all
13.11.2006, 17:23 quote
| foxieroxy wrote: |
| Maybe, it sounds scientifically like that would be the reason, though I suppose from a woman's point of view I just find it a little disheartening
x x x |
If it's any consolation roxy, i'd do you
13.11.2006, 20:08 quote
| swissrebel wrote: | ||
If it's any consolation roxy, i'd do you |
*joins the que*
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13.11.2006, 20:28 quote
| Aradon wrote: | ||||
*joins the que* |
Oh I love it, people forming a queue to have me! Its shocking, but sounds very fun, I have been told I am insatiable
13.11.2006, 20:35 quote
| foxieroxy wrote: | ||||||
Oh I love it, people forming a queue to have me! Its shocking, but sounds very fun, I have been told I am insatiable |
you want insatiable hun try me on for size, i can goooo all day and night and into tomorow, for around a week, my nickname should be duracell bunny ffs LOL
my ex went off sex because she had so much LMAO
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13.11.2006, 20:51 quote
I garuntee I could NEVER go off sex because of too much, as you can never get too much sex
x x x
13.11.2006, 21:57 quote
| foxieroxy wrote: |
| I garuntee I could NEVER go off sex because of too much, as you can never get too much sex
x x x |
nice one, some common ground, thats a good thing right
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14.11.2006, 04:24 quote
I don't think that separating sex and love is only a male thing... It could be cultural, though. I, being a woman, just plain enjoy sex. If I don't have a special someone to share it with, I am going to find it when I want it!
I understand that there are some people who are not able to separate the emotional aspect of sex from the physical... it is a very intimate act. There is nothing wrong with that point of view, nor is there anything wrong with mine. Each to his own.
I have had some of the most amazing sex of my life during one night stands, because both partners know it is just sex, and for the moment! And I have definatly had some mind-blowing sex with guys who came back for more... doesn't mean I love them or ever will.
Sex is sex and love is love. I don't have to love someone to enjoy sex, nor do I have to have sex to show my love to someone.
14.11.2006, 09:16 quote
I wasn't saying there was anything wrong with it I suppose, and in a way I can separate the two. I don't have to show my love through sex, and sex isn't wholly about love, sometimes you just want to rip someones clothes off and do them there and then (argh making me frisky just thinking about it )
I cant really talk, as my relationship pretty much started with the sex and built on that hehe, as we slept together on the first or second.... date. I love sex, its such good fun, I just see it, in my opinion that it is better with someone you love, or someone you have come to have a very high opinion of hehe
x x x
14.11.2006, 09:17 quote
| Aradon wrote: | ||
nice one, some common ground, thats a good thing right |
Very common ground, as I said, I am very into sex, I love it, especially when it has me hanging from the rafters
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