Ah yes, those men have a reputation for womanising though. Unfortunately as you say i think the love and love distinction is a male thing, not that some women dont have it, dont get me wrong, i just think men are able to do it more easily, as you say, due to primal instinct.

Funny how women havent evolved the same, so much as in we can distinguish between it much more easily now that reproduction isnt all we have in our minds.....

I garuntee I could NEVER go off love because of too much, as you can never get too much love
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I don't think that separating love and love is only a male thing... It could be cultural, though. I, being a woman, just plain enjoy love. If I don't have a special someone to share it with, I am going to find it when I want it!

I understand that there are some people who are not able to separate the emotional aspect of love from the physical... it is a very intimate act. There is nothing wrong with that point of view, nor is there anything wrong with mine. Each to his own.

I have had some of the most amazing love of my life during one night stands, because both partners know it is just love, and for the moment! And I have definatly had some mind-blowing love with guys who came back for more... doesn't mean I love them or ever will.

love is love and love is love. I don't have to love someone to enjoy love, nor do I have to have love to show my love to someone.

I wasn't saying there was anything wrong with it I suppose, and in a way I can separate the two. I don't have to show my love through love, and love isn't wholly about love, sometimes you just want to rip someones clothes off and do them there and then (argh making me frisky just thinking about it )

I cant really talk, as my relationship pretty much started with the love and built on that hehe, as we slept together on the first or second.... date. I love love, its such good fun, I just see it, in my opinion that it is better with someone you love, or someone you have come to have a very high opinion of hehe

x x x