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19.09.2006, 22:58 quote
| Justupforfun wrote: |
| If somebody realy hot made the offer and when asked, admitted it had nothing to do with personality or looks what would you do? |
Probably wake up.......
Seriously, its a hard call. I can't do the whole sex thing in a clinical fashion. I need some sort of mutual affection. I'd probably say no.
20.09.2006, 06:21 quote
I'd wait until we'd kissed before making up my mind. I couldn't have sex with someone who was a lousy kisser 
20.09.2006, 08:06 quote
| Justupforfun wrote: |
| Choc is for me(can't help it if I like the stuff lol) |
Apparently (depending on how much you eat) it's no good for people who suffer with insomnia
20.09.2006, 11:59 quote
| Justupforfun wrote: |
| If somebody realy hot made the offer and when asked, admitted it had nothing to do with personality or looks what would you do? |
I do not understand this!
Am I just being old fashioned, but why would someone want to have sex with someone that they do not fancy?
If it has nothing to do with looks or personality, then how can you sleep with someone?
Wanders off pondering on the 'yoof of today!'
Pol x
20.09.2006, 12:08 quote
| pollyanna37 wrote: | ||
I do not understand this! Am I just being old fashioned, but why would someone want to have sex with someone that they do not fancy? If it has nothing to do with looks or personality, then how can you sleep with someone? Wanders off pondering on the 'yoof of today!' Pol x |
hmm, intersting point. Will have to investigate.
*Dons deerstalker and reaches for drop-step pipe.
20.09.2006, 16:44 quote
as long as both parties are attracted to eachother and know it's purely sexual.....
then i'd go for it.....
21.09.2006, 18:43 quote
I'd agree with the others, there would have to be a physical attraction to get it on with someone. Though having said that, some blokes will get up on anything.... 
13.11.2006, 04:30 quote
| almostpurrrfect wrote: |
| as long as both parties are attracted to eachother and know it's purely sexual.....
then i'd go for it..... |
I agree... so long as both know it is just for the sake of sex, then it is fine. If only one knows it is for sex, then no good...
13.11.2006, 07:04 quote
Oh hell yeah id accept ROFL, see I don't really tie all the emotional bollox to sex, it is what it is, fun. In my opinion sex and love are 2 VERY different things, you don't need one to have the other.
But you have to be able to think in that way to be able to enjoy sex for that, else you'll end up getting attached emotionally, then it could get awkward.
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13.11.2006, 07:39 quote
Is that a male thing, separating love and sex completely?! I mean most women I know don't seem to separate the two, but most men do. Do you honestly really not put the two together? I mean fair enough, 1-night stand, there wont be an attachment, but in a relationship, is sex just sex to you guys and not something more passionate?
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13.11.2006, 08:04 quote
| foxieroxy wrote: |
| Is that a male thing, separating love and sex completely?! I mean most women I know don't seem to separate the two, but most men do. Do you honestly really not put the two together? I mean fair enough, 1-night stand, there wont be an attachment, but in a relationship, is sex just sex to you guys and not something more passionate?
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Nope, I treasure sex in a relationship, but you don't need to be in a relationship to appreciate it. Passion is another part of a relationship, it's another strain of lust, except lust is normally felt between those not in a relationship.
The reason most blokes can seperarate the 2 so easily is because 9 times out of 10, blokes live in a physical world, females in an emtional world. If you get my meaning.
The fact I can enjoy sex for sex, doesn't mean I don't treasure it in a relationship, for example I would happily have a threesome with someone I had met in a club etc, but I would be uncomfortable if a partner wanted one.
Meaningless sex is good, but imo being able to get "lost" in someone so deeply is far better
Again, sex and love are 2 VERY different things.
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13.11.2006, 08:05 quote
| foxieroxy wrote: |
| Is that a male thing, separating love and sex completely?! I mean most women I know don't seem to separate the two, but most men do. Do you honestly really not put the two together? I mean fair enough, 1-night stand, there wont be an attachment, but in a relationship, is sex just sex to you guys and not something more passionate?
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Yep..most, if not all men do separate sex and love. Maybe its the animal instinct of males wanting to plant his seed and females staying with the same male.
13.11.2006, 08:32 quote
Maybe, it sounds scientifically like that would be the reason, though I suppose from a woman's point of view I just find it a little disheartening
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13.11.2006, 08:48 quote
I aint nobodys sex kitten for anyone..... sex to me is not just a quickie and snatched moments..... Sex is something i cherish with the person i adore and i only ever make love!!!
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