…..you are still good friends with your ex partner. You are both single. Said ex partner turns up at your place and reminds you that your mutual love life was extremely good and asks if you want to go to bed?

I don't know. How big are her tits.

Seriously, I think that depends on so many factors that are individual to each situation. How do you feel about your ex? Do you still find your ex attractive? I know these are simple questions, but I truely don't believe you can have one definitive answer to this question. Individual circumstances and opinions shape everything, imo.

Well, I was more intereested in what other people would do if the situation arose, but to answer your questions......

Baggiebhoy wrote:

I don't know. How big are her tits.

36DD

Ok, if the situation arose for me, then I wouldn't. I've only got one ex, and that was a kind of complicated 'friends with benefits' deal anyway. It ended up screwing with both our heads, and we haven't spoken since it ended. I doubt either of us want to get into that again.

But in your situation, as long as neither of you wants any more than the other in terms of commitment, I'd say have a little fun, but don't get too carried away with it. As long as there are boundaries in place beforehand, I wouldn't see too much of a problem. Other people might have differing opinions, though.

I'd ask her to leave.

all i can say is god no get him away

Right now I would go for it I think as long there was not anyone else involved (ie none of us had a significant other). I know I have no feelings apart from friendship for my ex so would be just love for me. And boy i need it right now

If it was that good before, and you both know that it's just love then go for it.

well my thoughts it are, they are ur ex for a reason
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Mixed reception so far, I should have done this as a poll, that would have given a better idea. I suppose one of the main factors would be why the 2 people are no longer together in the first place?

Which ex?!! lol Definitely neither of my ex husbands and my ex boyfriend and I have been down that road before. It mucks our heads up because we're both too emotional, so no to him too

send her back where she came from - it will just reopen old scars

this is the last thing i want to answer right now

have tried to stay friends with the ex as i dont want any spite as it were yet some things still hurt

guess am the last person to ask at the moment

Try it once and if you feel anything for her, don't do it again.