For a woman, myself personally, I want to know I'm in bed with a man! Make some noise, tell me how you like it! Grab my head and bury it between your legs! Do something, just don't lay there like a dead fish!!!

I suppose confidence is a good thing..

And the desire to please the other person always helps..I guess experience may help!

I also think knowing your own body and what works for you.. You can't expect someone else to know what turns you on if you don't even know yourself. So communication is key!!

i guess it depends on the definition of good..

Condoms..
Wiped cream ( or spray cream )
Thermal cup full of tea ( for the midnight break )
a candle ( lit or not, that's your choice )
a scented room - not smelly sock scented either !

oh and of course, a partner who's feelin frisky.

if your not both in the right mood for it, it doesn't matter what you do, it still won't be 'that' good..

my 2p's worth.
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.......being naughty makes somebody good in bed

someone thats attentive and isnt just interested in pleasing themselves! its always good having sum1 that wants 2 experiment lol

No, No, No, No, er, No...
Cos the last time I tried that...
the bloody Bunsen burner set fire to the bedclothes!
Never again!
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Give me golf clubs, fresh air and a beautiful partner, and you can keep the clubs and the fresh air.
(Jack Benny)

Handsel, why naked??
just curious, not outrighly nosey lol.

Sometimes the other factors need to be considered, if i have time for a quicky, lets have a quicky, not a sod everything else and come to bed for 4 hours, so consideration is possibly a factor?

i also think you cant beat raw lust

patience. The need to want satisfy each other, findin the person a turn on might help? or if not then at least av the ability to turn each other on. Nothing boring, same stuff is boring. Being sponanious, but not like fukin in the middle of the street in broad daylight lol. Helping each other out, especially if the 1 person is more sexually experienced than the other. Encouraging each other to be open minded and share fantasties? OK i now sound like a boring 50 yr old lol, sowwie

lol Sorry didnt mean to offend. Heya. I think men go for older women because they are more mature, physically, sexually and mentally. More on the same wavelength i think. And older people are more wiser with more life experiences and therefore a hell of a lot more things to share, like a 50 or older yr old may have travelled the world done a hell of a lot more things etc etc, whereas the younger generation dont really have that much life experiences so it makes the older person alot more intriging (if i spelt that right)