Has eny one noticed that their boyfreind/husban/whatever is OBSESSED with having a 3sum with you and your best freind??? Is it like a weird thing that all guys fatisize about?
My boyfriend is always askin me 2 call my bestfriend and invite her round 4 a 3sum with us?
Is this normal or is it just a sik fantasy that he will eventualy grow out of?
Pls let me hear your thorts coz im all out of my own!!
Argh!

I dont think it is just the men....I know plenty of women looking for one too....(usually not 2 women though...unfortunately)

Well it's common enough as a fantasy! if all concerned are interested then what ever floats your boat! if not it can be a relationship breaker!!! so it's something that shouldn't be pushed! If you're not keen well i would suggest that you don't give in it could cost you a fella and a friend
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

Toby's right, it's the girls who want them usually just as much as the guys. I'd steer clear of doing it with a best mate really anyway, it only makes problems.

You've said no and he keeps bugging you about it, I think you need to make it clearer to him?

Maybe just stop having sex with him until he stops bugging you to have sex with your best friend?

That sounds harsh Swiss... but maybe just the medicine he needs.

Lol, I doubt he will grow out of it, proper conditioning might work though?

My hubby is disgused at the thought!! i want one, he wont let me lol
He isnt normal

I would offer my help if you like

Well, thanx guys (and girls) you'v given me a new insight on 3sums maybe if i feel our relation ship is stronger, then maybe.... MAYBE ill giv it a go.... but not with my best friend

Has any one had a 3sum and did it fuk your relation up? Was it any good???

Personally I wouldnt have a 3'some involving a partner.

I've always found it best for 3 independant people to get together, which ever combination.

Its always best IMO to keep the emotional aspect out of it.

I agree with both the above posters in the sense that it's bloody good, but helps to keep the relationship out of it - even if you're involving a current partner.

If you have a threesome as a "couple having sex with another person involved" then usually jealousy kicks in. It's best to leave all that at the door and just have sex as 3 individuals.

But they are bloody good fun.

I also agree with Nic, that it sounds like he just wants to screw your best mate. If that kinda thing turns you on, fine - but it does sound suspicious

I have been lucky enough to have had a few threesomes, and had a couple in the last month!! I have always found that the best way is for them to be with people who you are not involved with, it is far less complicated. My last one was with a woman who worked near us and someone i met off the Net!! It was fantastic and we were all three adults so not a drama!! All good clean fun really!! Both the girls suggested it was a fantasy for them, before i had even mentioned it!!!
Robbie

Well, thanx 4 the tips guys i think now i'll keep a closer eye on him now... i'v always thort a 3sum would be fun, and now i think that wen our relation ship is over, ill finaly experiance one (with out the jellousy bit )

Thanx for all your help tho

Take care meanwhile! xoxo

Most of my exes have been surprised when i've said the 3sum fantasy is not at the top of my list.... maybe i'll spill the beans in another post.
I had the fortune to experience 2 guys one girl, what a thrill but its better being the outsider... no emotions to deal with just great sex and alot of fun.

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