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26.06.2006, 14:09 quote

Anonymous

danni82 wrote:
I admire you for your choice, however i could never have done that. it would be my worst nightmare to have married someone and then find out were not sexually compatible. One the plus side though if i had of done i could have made a fortune buying shares in duracell as id be buying a tonn of batteries


You would be Duracell's best customer! Maybe you could do a deal with them and get them in buk Laughing

 

26.06.2006, 16:21 quote

Anonymous

Go bulk, there is always another set if one goes dry(how frustrating that would be)...

love toys the saviour of women every where

 

30.06.2006, 06:00 quote

Anonymous

...........love before marriage.....No,No, No....... it makes you late for the church, and you try explaining to the wedding hire shop what that "white stain" is on your suit trousers!!!! Laughing

 

30.06.2006, 19:40 quote

Anonymous

"What do you think about not having love before marridge?"

I don't like it.

almostpurrfect, want to get married.........?
Wink
Love ya,
Thomas

 

30.06.2006, 20:02 quote

Anonymous

wow i got a marriage proposal hehehe

 

01.07.2006, 16:45 quote

Anonymous

Well it was more of a question about what your interest is; but that proposal idea is appealing too.

You are not changing your mind about that love before marriage thing, are you? The love part is easy, well ........ something that can be developed.

But marriage is pretty direct, a hit or miss type arrangement. Lots to consider: where to live, how many children, what schools, where to work, how much money to make, developing influential friends and business associates, lifestyle, religion, in-laws to live next door or across town (maybe in another state or other country), culture shock, custome blending and expectations ............. Who pays the bill, does the shopping, cleans the house, cooks, washes cloths, OR who chooses the house keeper and chauffeur, butles and maids, who is to make the money and who is to manage the career. Who makes what decision and who pays for the mistakes in judgement ...... too many mistakes and the marriage fails. America leads the world in failed marriages. It is a 50/50 risk.

Love ya,
Thomas

That is why I am single. But love is still part of being human.

 

02.07.2006, 15:45 quote

Anonymous

Thomas, always the analytical of out bunch, hehe. I agree with almost and danni, please, i would hate to get married and find out we were not sexually compatible, some people are not teachers and some not learners. OMG, what if he hates the thot of eating armpit, or for that matter, didnt like blow jobs. and 1 position only "here honey lets wam bam thank u mam," is not my idea of love or making love.

the always crazilicious, evilicious, and sexilicious Aluria

 

09.12.2006, 17:13 quote

bjandtits
Joined: 08 Dec 2006 Posts: 5 Location: South Africa, Gauteng, City of Tshwane (Pretoria)
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All I can say is would you buy a car without testdriving it first?Later on in the relationship you might hear or see what other people do during love and when you want to try it with your partner might not be interested in trying the different "moves" and then you will be wondering what you are missing.

 

10.12.2006, 00:18 quote

compton
Joined: 04 Nov 2006 Posts: 9 Location: United Kingdom, England, Birmingham
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i agree with the first guy - get writh the times dude! love isn't the big deal it used to be. You're wasting your time if you think staying 'pure' is a plus, it's just not like that any more. You're saying it's best to have love with just one person, ever. That's a mistake, possibly a big one.

The more experience you have, the more confident you are, the more likely you'll satisfy your partner, not to mention yourself.

 

10.12.2006, 11:30 quote

beddo
Joined: 15 Oct 2006 Posts: 308 Location: United Kingdom, England, Merseyside
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Woaa. Old thread wakeup.
To people saying get with the times, try realising that people are different. In the past, present and the future love has always meant different things to different people.
Personally I don't think you need marriage to be fully committed to a relationship and to someone. I don't think I would likely feel right having a fling with someone outside of a relationship but then I've never found/put myself in a position to test that out.
Nothing is ever quite as simple as telling everyone that they should come round to your viewpoint..

 

10.12.2006, 11:32 quote

pirakkanaama
pirakkanaama Joined: 24 Nov 2006 Posts: 2012 Location: United Kingdom, England, Leicestershire
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good ide and a bad idea
bad cus u may ruin ur relationship and taint it by controlling it by love
good cus lest u know wat ur getting into
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10.12.2006, 13:42 quote

catsgotcream
catsgotcream Joined: 12 Sep 2006 Posts: 1 Location: Ireland, Dublin, Malahide
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Andrew . I can only hope that you are joking. When you are married you should have already built a relationship of which you are both 100% compatible. Its too late when the cake is cut to turn back. Its the same as buying a car , surely one would test drive. considering marrige is for life should make a test drive imperative to say the least .

 
 
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