I am great believe in not having sex before marridge because you can love some one and be in true love and then when you get married that if you are truely right for each other then the sex will be most awesome and it will be part of building a great relationship. Also it will be something that you can give as a most awesome gift to your husband / wife. becuase thinking that you don't know someone sexualy will mean that your relationship will go wrong is a lie because if are you are truely wanting to be with that person then you should be able to willing to wait for it and have it as something you can help it build and learn together for the rest of your lifes.

Andrew from Rugby

You must have a small cock and are trying to trap the girl.

All i can say is get with the times, sex isnt just about the love anymore. Its more of a natural feeling, and people do get needs. People do it for enjoyment as well as for loving someone.

As much as I enjoy sex, I think it's truly noble to try and abstain from sex until you're married. It's a truly admirable thing and I could never have done it myself.

I think marriage is a sham really, originally a business arrangement between families, that has gradually become outdated - however that doesn't mean the feelings between two people aren't still there.

I say good luck to anyone who tries it, in our modern world, sex is probably losing meaning anyway.

i think what u have to offer a woman is very special. but i think sex before marridge is a must. you can still wait to you love someone to explore each other someone like you must be very rare these days when there is so much presure to have sex as soon as pos.but i think sex before marridge is a must i personal cud not wait well i still be waiting now as no 1 has ever wanted to marry me so far, i think its good to explore another person before marridge to see if you are compatible. but i respect your views. dont take any stick from these seady peop on here. im sure when u meet the 1 it be worth the wait.

cheers Fairy

omg but what if he was crap in bed!?? i dont think i could handle the rest of eternity with a one postion man. and god if i didnt have sex befor marriage i'd be crap in bed toooooooo.....

oh hang on i need to lie down.

No......best to wait till after, its rude to keep all them guests waiting.
_________________
'If you don't know me, don't judge me'

Well each to their own, but I think it would be a shame to find out that two people were sexually incompatible after tying the knot!
Sex is also something that gets better after a variety of experiences. I've learnt something new with each person I've been with over the years, I think if I'd stayed with one person all this time, I'd probably be a pretty crap lay now.
But as I say, each to their own.

Well in my unseedy humble opinion im a great believer in try before u buy..wot would happen if you just dont get on sexually..what a nightmare ..would u buy a car without taking it a test drive?

No sex before marriage - what a waste of fucking time.
_________________
- NICARAGUA NOVA -

Sex forum moderator

"You dont need to emerge from nothing - you dont need to tear away"

I'm not religious so it has no context to me personally.

I admire you for your choice, however i could never have done that. it would be my worst nightmare to have married someone and then find out were not sexually compatible. One the plus side though if i had of done i could have made a fortune buying shares in duracell as id be buying a tonn of batteries