Nah it don't count as casual if you do things out of bed and see them more than once.

Not in my book anyway

ok Jimmmm i am not a casual sexer anymore

Long read and i feel compelled to put my two cents in on the matter.

I am just going to masturbate from now on. Screw sex. You guys have put me off

I think it is fair to say that we all have had a one night stand or some form of a casual frequent encounter with the same or opposite sex. Some of us deal with this rather well and manage not to get emotionally involved. Some tend to think badly about what had happened and feel guilty for their actions. Some, as is my case, don't put themselves into these kinds of situations. Some just go out and get laid with whomever they fancy if it suits them. If having a FB, some casual fling, a one night stand is what you want to do then that is fine except it will not involve me for this is not how i operate. I get emotionally involved and cannot separate sex from some casual thing that you do when ever it suits you.

If you want to have sex then have sex. If you don't then don't. We all operate differently and have different needs.

It can be hard not to get involved when it is casual, for me it depends how good they are in bed, as vain as it sounds if the guy is lazy and selfish in bed,then i wont give him another chance to impress, one night stands are mostly crap, id just say stick to the vibrator girls. N for guys and girls, i think ur attitudes bout casual sex would change if u met the right person, believe me it happened to me, were not 2getha now cos i got to involved but he woz super in the sack n a super guy

It can be hard not to get involved when it is casual, for me it depends how good they are in bed, as vain as it sounds if the guy is lazy and selfish in bed,then i wont give him another chance to impress, one night stands are mostly crap, id just say stick to the vibrator girls. N for guys and girls, i think ur attitudes bout casual sex would change if u met the right person, believe me it happened to me, were not 2getha now cos i got to involved but he woz super in the sack n a super guy

I actually met a French guy off fb end of last May (my first online date) & we got on really well, anyway we had a casual thing going on for about 5 months & surprisingly for me I didnt get involved.... probably because I knew from the beginning that it was only ever going to be a casual thing.

We are still friends but I dont meet up with him anymore, although he wants to, I feel I need more than just sex.

Not sure if I will do it again tho, each to their own I suppose, everyones different so it might work for some but not all........
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