"Women become totally emotionally involved when sleeping with someone".

I think the key word there should be "Some", not all.

There are many women out there who can enjoy sexual encounters either on a casual or long-term basis without getting emotionally involved or even screwed up.

I guess most of them just don't put their side of the story forward on this forum.

I think cold, emotionless love must be an awful thing, but then again, you dont have to go as far as having a full on relationship with someone to have enjoyable love with them. As long as you like them and enjoy their company thats good enough for me.

"Yup. Because in a conservative environment such as this they'd be referred to as 'slags'".

That's a shame, dont you think?
I've never understood that philosophy.
It should be the same sauce for both goose and gander.
I would hardly call this website a "conservative environment" though.

I'm not scared to admit ive had a couple of FWB.....Filled a required need at the time. Just wish I had one right now . i'm not one of those women that gets attached i must admit. Tended to be the other way round which is why I had to end them

Please don't tell me I need to suffix everything with a smilie so people don't take things so literally. The written word has managed for thousands of years without dumbing down to that extent.

Anyway, the point being I'd have far more respect for a woman who is comfortable with her own body and isn't afraid to use it. To me it shows confidence. Not that 'I'm a tiger! Raaah!' faux-confidence bollocks. Genuine confidence where they know exactly what they want and, more importantly, how to get it.

The coy ones, in my limited experience, usually have something to hide. And it's rarely something good. I used to be a proper old-fashioned romantic and used to love an air of mystery. Then I realised that air of mystery is similar to that of the Bermuda Triangle. And look what happened there?

Cards on the table or no deal from now on. It's fraught with risk, but what the marry, you only live once. It's paid off so far though. Even if things have ended up a little complicated. It keeps life interesting.

The best FBs ive found are ones that come in and out of country.

It eliminates the risk of getting emotionally attached.

My last one screwed up because she went behind my back about going out with someone. I think thats not really cool shagging me and seeing someone else on a more personal level. Number one rule. Always be honest with your FB.