Yo its not bothering me still being a virgin still, mind as a part of a controled scientific experiement i would be willing to give it up to one of these fine ladies on the forum!

my last long term gf was a virgin when i met her, i did not know this when i asked her out but it wouldnt have made me want her more or less if i had known. i just took things nice n slow with her, over the course of a few weeks we slowly built up the touching and caressing, mutual masturbation until eventually it felt right to go all the way. i was worried that since i was her first she might not like it or it might be painful for her if she wasnt relaxed enough physically. but like i said we took it nice n slow, we both enjoyed it and after that sex just got better and better. so although i had some anxiety over being her first experience of sex we were both happy and enjoyed it so much we did it again, and again and again etc. and yes there was an age gap, i was 30 and she was 19, i met her at work and it lasted 2 years.

ive been a barman for about 5 years now and ive seen it all men who rate there sex life by how many women theve slept with and men who just dont want to have one night stands and only look for girlfriends but on the other side i saee women who like to do exactly the same but dont boast about it you know any off the subject a little (RANT!!) my veiw is that losing your virginity is just the start to a life long adventure that is dating sex and having to live with needing someone else cause if you cant have sex with somone then there is no relationship (myveiw) personally i lost it on top off a 32yearold women at the age of 15 and i thought it was great and have been doing it the same but when i talk to girls my general veiw is htat they dont enjoy it but i know girls that have really enjoyed it so i guess it just matters who you are and how your body has grow xxx

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Hey there is nothing to be ashamed of being a virgin. I am still at 18 i have enough chances enough blokes come onto me but until you feel comfortable with the person to have sex, you shouldnt go through with it. I know how you feel a lot of my friends both have and havent had sex and a lot of them regret their first time either due to the person, the place, or too much alcohol.

I do have some advice to pass onto you dont lose it at the after prom, every guy is thinking that they are going to score so have some respect and check that he is for real but waiting a week after the prom. I hope that you have come to the conclusion that your first time probably isnt going to be your best sexual experience but it will be even harder to get an orgasm if you are standing up in a toilet. Lets face it orgasms arnt that easy to come by at that age the third guy i was with gave me my first orgasm because none of the other knew what they were doing.

Just take your time and make it a confortable night where you are not worrying about anything else like someone walking in.

Pink xx

lol standing up in toilets such fond memories hehe