This is a message for the guys what do you feel on the matter of virginity? Does it scare you? Do you feel its a conquest? or is it no different to sleeping with anyone else?

good question,,, if the guy loves you it will be a great experience for both, (hopefully you as the first time will enjoy too.)
a man who sees it as a conquest isnt respecting you whatsoever,
thats such the wrong attitude for a bloke in love to have hence if he sees it as a conquest he isnt in love with you.

It's not like sleeping with anyone else. It has to be slow, careful and is generally quite uncomfortable for both involved if not just her.

But that's the point, right? The first time's made out to be "all that" by society, so it's an unpleasant surprise when she finds out she's bleeding, that she'll be sore for quite a while afterwards and there's about as much chance of her experiencing an orgasm on her first time as there is of her virginity growing back afterwards

Some guys like to prey on virgins. My theory is that these guys are so bad, they have to have sex with girls who have nobody else to compare it to

i lost mine somewhere..... now if only i could bloody well find it again my life might not be so complicated!!!

sex. blah. men. ugh.

maybe i left it under the bed.... i'll go check!

I havent lost mine yet. its not that im waiting for mr.right, its just that I cant seem to shut my brain up. it doesnt stop. even while making out, the whole time I just think " does he like that? " blah blah blah!! it fucking sucks. any suggestions on how to shut it off??

ahahah!! yep.

That might not help with the keeping of virginity tho...

well, im sure when I decide to lose it, alcohol will be involved, other wise i'll be waaaaaaaaay too nervous, and thinking waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much about it.

Martha stewart says life is too short not to be orderly
I say life is too short not to take risks. unless the risk your taking is unsafe sex. :O stds! what what!

Wouldn't really know tbh, i've only had 1 sexual partner, we were both virgins...

I guess it doesn't matter to me either way, but would prolly be good to know if the other person is a virgin so you can at least take it slow and try and make their first time a good one

I am nearly 40 and never been in love or ever had the real and true shared experience of making love properly with a woman. Although I have lost my cherry to a prostitute via a condom. So if practical love can be a virginal concept I am definitely left on the shelf there!

I think being someones first is a real honour.