to get it done before oyu meet a new Lady, as it can take a while to er, flush all the nasty sperms thru the system......so if you meet a new lady, you won't be clear...unless you've been doing quite a lot of practice on your own. It took me about 8 months to flush out, which says a lot for the state of the relationship I was in at the time! lmao.

i should have eaten more wotsits! Dammit.

got the snip about 2 1/2 years ago. Was told it can take time but wasn't told a number of ejacualtions, just that it varies from man to man. But was not active over those months,as relationship on skids, so dunno, maybe 25 or so....HTH

I think its a good idea. I certainly don't want anymore children and would love to know that the man has taken some responsibility towards that not happening instead of it all resting on my shoulders.

I do know a guy who had it done beginning of the year and he said it was fine. I think i was more horrified than he was when he told me he had to stay awake while it was done!! Just think carefully Dark and make sure its what you really want. xx

don't worry dark horse, I was awake and they give you a local anaesthetic and you hardly feel a thing, I was joking wiht the nurse thru it, thought he doctor was a miserable bugger.

It is not painful.

Until a bit later.....but it's more of a dull ache and I've had much worse pains after a game of footie.

Yup. I'd go for it. Provided whoever I was with was happy with it and we'd either had kids or were never intending to have any. Hell, if it came down to it I'd put some of the little fellas on ice just in case.

I don't see it as losing my masculinity at all. I just see it as being able to fire off like an Aden cannon without ever having to worry about hitting the target. How can that be a bad thing?

Vasectomy update:

Due to a slight misunderstanding about which surgical procedure I was booked in for, I now have 2 testicles for sale.

Both in excellent condition for age and serviced regularly. Currently stored in Fat Willys coffee mug on desk (black, $4.99, St Ives), might consider including mug. Could also persoanlly deliver in original packaging if required. Will ship with authenticated copy of original manufacture certificate. All reasonable offers considered.

to right about not wanting more kids in oyur 40s. I had mine late (OK the ex did) but I just not sure I could face going thu all that again at 47! Plus, and this was also quite important in my personal decision, as it would be with a different woman to their mother, it would compromise my relationship with my 2 kids....I just couldn't do that.