Why is it if a guy wants to find a younger woman for sex, he's called a pervert; but if a woman finds a younger guy it's all "Ohhh so and so has a toyboy" with congratulatory hugs and hallmark cards being sent. Is there something wrong in being enamoured with the younger, firmer, female form?

there is defo a big difference because older woman dont try and rape younger boys, and older woman have experince. and to be honest mate you look and sound like a paedo.

I fully concur with what your saying Helix, I have at time wondered about this very thing

I wouldn't class an older guy as a pervert as long as the girl was legal and willing !
Surely its no different than the toyboy scenario so anyone who says otherwise is narrow minded and is best ignored.

Thankyou swissrebel. It's taken me a few minutes to log back in, and I have cooled-off, otherwise I would have written a few choice words to that 16 year old.
Like other forum messages I have seen on here, lets stick to the topic, or don't bother replying.

I do agree! It's something that has equally bugged me for sometime! It is a sad fact that the older male is called a dirty old man or worse! Look at some of the remarks placed in the profiles!!! I must admit i am happy to chat to all ages but would shy well clear of putting myself in any position where i could be accused of rape etc! the sad fact of this country is that you are branded and guilty without trial! it happened to a mate of mine! end of story he lost his home life and career because of it.
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill!!!!

The number of cases in the papers highlight the problems in this day and age!!! the interest from a younger woman is of course flattering but equate that against the possible dangers you could place yourself in!!! now before the explosion !!!!! We must admit that there are a large % of golddiggers around! (male/female) The prospect of being branded as a whatever! the mud does stick even if the accusation is unfounded! So exercising a bit of care and discretion should be a priority!!! Surely if all forum entries are checked by a mod that rather obnoxious entry should not have made it onto our screens!!!!!!!!
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill!!!!