I'm looking for any advice possible on threesomes, me and my partner have talked about them for ages (one guy and two girls). As a sort of birthday present I would really like to set one up for him! Problem is I have no idea where to start!

Where do I start to find someone?

Advice anyone!

i have only experianced it once, but it was with me and a mate and my girlfriend. bit strange at first, and no idea how we began it. it just kinda happend.
bit differnt, but all i can say is enjoy it and maybe have a litlle to drink before ahnd to put every one in a relaxing mood. also would you prefer a friend to join in or a stranger?

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I would prefer if it was a stranger, that way it shouldn't be that complicated.

But not even sure of where I might go to find people that are that open minded! Would really prefer to go out on a night out with my fella and meet someone, but in reality we did try that before and there was a girl that came onto us!!!! but she was way to drunk for us to consider doing it.

Plus the problem is I mainly have male friends and my partner has hardly any female friends?

It is almost impossible to organise.

I have advertised now for 2 years.

Still no luck.

Well would it seem crazy to just go out with my partner, check into a hotel for a night and see what happens?

Would it be better to go to a hotel?

the problem is is that there arnt allot of open minded people out there, but i am sure you will find the right person. i think what you did before is a good idea. try clubs where the people who go are more open minded. if you live in london i can recomend some for you.

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I thought you would find someone on this site!

I live in Fife, Scotland and mainly go out in Edinburgh. So if anyone knows anywhere to go in Edinburgh. I'll owe you big time!!!!

Is there anymore hints for finding the right people to take part in a threesome?

I have advertised here and on another one for lesbians and bi-sexuals.

No luck yet. We went to Manchester, booked into a hotel, no luck.....

No luck whatsoever.....

I think it would be better if it was someone we met in a club or bar, but I don't want to come across a dirty cow.

If you are getting on well with someone, how exactly do you bring it up in conversation?

Someone will more than likely get hurt.

Hey Namaj,
I Know there are a few "meeting places" out there that cater for people with your needs, kinda like swingers bars....actually I think they are swingers bars. Have you considered looking for one of those even if it's just as a one off?
I don't really know a lot about them...no honestly I don't ...but if you search the net you might find one close to where you live.

It might not be a good idea though to be honest, I know I wouldn't wanna do it for fear that my partner might turn lesbian and run off with the other girl....kinda like Ross in Friends

I know of a website that lists loads of clubs and places that cater for this kind of activity, won't post it though coz i doub't i'm allowed, If I am then can someone let me know and i'll link y'all.
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