Swearing during sex - is it a turn on?

Is for me

Your thoughts

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As crazy, blunt, bold and sassy as i am that has always been uncomfortable for me, hehe but i do like it when the man is swearing, but dont call me bitch or c****t, dont like that


aluria

Well it epends on the type of sex really for me!!! If its spontainious sex...then yes swearing is good..... as long as like Aluria said..please dont call me B**** or C***! But on the other hand.. if its gentle seductive love making then i would prefurre the nice stuff...... oh you know!!! the soppy stuff

Favourite position is a 69...... so it don't matter !!!
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[quote="Paul2004"]Favourite position is a 69...... so it don't matter !!! [/quote]
Did you not know Paul, that it is rude to speak with your mouth full?????
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My mouth full !!!?!?!?!?!?
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lol jesus...69 position and you can still swear?????
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tough question, all depends on the mood and what is said.

I dont think i would mind... 'fuck me senseless' or something along those lines but 'come over here you fucking wanker' wouldnt really do it for me.

yes i do find it a turn on "you dirty little bitch" things like that. As long as its not a direct insult! but going along with the base feeling of the filthyness of sex. cos i do see sex as raw, basic instinct so just kind of feels right to throw in some raw filthy language to go with it !

I've only been with one girl who's talked dirty, and she was still fairly restrained about it.

Not really the swearing though.

Filthy talk..... OH YES!

It depends on the situation.

If you feel like doing something then do it, at that moment - let it out! It'll come across as a spontaneous moment and as long as its right for the moment then it will be ok. If whatever you say dosnt go down well then at least you can honestly say that you were caught up in the moment

If you feel like doing something and then start thinking "is this ok?" "what tone of voice shall i use?" then by the time you actually say it then its gonna sound fake and you'll feel like a bit of a fool saying it.
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my problem is swearin wen im enjoyin myself if you know wt i mean!! im jus like "fuck me" and then i always get the response "i am doing" lol

Dirty tealk can be a real turn-on. I don't mean a women berating you for your unkempt apartment, mildewed walls and limescaled shower...although beggers can't be choosers eh? I think with a couple who are really OK with it they will know their own limits and what they can and can't say. I was with a girl once who was into it and really loving the expletives and I called her "a hot little fuck."

Didn't go down too well, I may add. Hard sometimes to find a girl who's willing.

DJ

I'll admit to being a filthy bitch during sex. I rarely swear in my day-to-day life and absolutely abore the 'c' word.... unless i'm having sex!! It's no holds barred then. Everything and anything, the dirtier the better