Posts: 395317 Topics: 16167 LOGIN

Home >> Sex >> Sex without sex

26.08.2006, 00:29 quote

Anonymous

Removed

 

26.08.2006, 06:46 quote

Nicaragua
Nicaragua Joined: 20 Feb 2005 Posts: 125 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
View user's profile Visit poster's website

Im sure that there are plenty of all women who would say they would enjoy this sort of thing, in theory it all sounds very cute and tender.

My advice is to forget all this though and just go and get laid. It sounds like you have the lovey/strokey/considerate thing sorted but to wait so long for "the right girl" has always sounded dumb to me. Sex is messy and noisy and the tender/lovey stuff is soon replaced by animal passion. Go get laid and practice so then when you do meet "the right girl" you have got over any inhbitions and have enough experience to show here a good time.
_________________
- NICARAGUA NOVA -

Sex forum moderator

"You dont need to emerge from nothing - you dont need to tear away"


 

26.08.2006, 08:37 quote

Anonymous

it sounded brilliant up until you said you WOULDN'T penetrate. i'm sorry if i sound like some sex mad fiend but after all that foreplay i'd need sex. because what you do is foreplay.... it comes before sex.

if someone got me all worked up like that and then refused to have full sex with me you can bet your ass i would never call them again.

sorry if i've burst anyone's bubble. [/i]

 

26.08.2006, 13:44 quote

Moonwolf
Moonwolf Joined: 22 Jul 2006 Posts: 83 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
View user's profile Visit poster's website

I agree with almostpurrrfect. If I had gotten a girl THAT worked up and excited, I would not have enough self control to just stop. Sounds like torture to me.
_________________

 

26.08.2006, 16:36 quote

Anonymous

i understand the need to find the right girl, but sounds like you have already had your tongue in places that are intimate, why not anything else. and i agree with moon and purr, u get me to that point u better finish what you started or i would be looking for someone who would, sorry but thats the way i feel,.....dont you get sexually frustrated yourself???????

 

27.08.2006, 11:15 quote

ScotsDave
ScotsDave Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 1073 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
View user's profile Visit poster's website

In bed with a naked Lady no full sex but all the rest, I could'nt do it not that much self control not at that stage! Any Lady fancy doing research with me feel free, just for the sake of humanity you understand of course Laughing

 

27.08.2006, 11:22 quote

bubbliciousssss

god loves a trier scotsdave lol

 

27.08.2006, 14:23 quote

ScotsDave
ScotsDave Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 1073 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
View user's profile Visit poster's website

bubbliciousssss wrote:
god loves a trier scotsdave lol





I wish some of the lovely ladies would Crying or Very sad

 

27.08.2006, 15:48 quote

HotLikePink
Joined: 13 Aug 2006 Posts: 7 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
View user's profile Visit poster's website

hey i know what you mean i am also a virgin, and i have done everything else apart from full on sex. The problem is if you want to do everything else then you have to understand a girl gets turned on and wants more. also i was with a bloke who was similar to you and wouldnt epentrate me and he wasnt a virgin and after some time it makes a girl start to think that you are just not that into her and that you dont like her enough to have full on sex with her.

 

27.08.2006, 18:51 quote

Anonymous

This is really intereresting what peoples definition of sex is!

Surely if you are intimate with someone even without penetration then that is sex.

So you have had your face/fingers/toys anything you can thing of in and around somoene else but because you have not had penetration that is still a virgin?

Now I was brought up a Catholic and I can stretch the boundries of sex to avoid the guilt as much as the next person but that seems a little far fetched to me!

Sorry if that sounds harsh but if you like someone why put limits on it?

Pol x

 

29.08.2006, 14:40 quote

PrincessTamz
PrincessTamz Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 470 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
View user's profile Visit poster's website

I think I would end up very disappointed and frustrated! I agree with Almostpurrfect!

 

29.08.2006, 15:00 quote

scotincornwall

Again, I have to repeat what I've said before: Everyone is different.

Some women PREFER oral sex, for example, to penetrative sex. And some women orgasm from oral, but can't from penetrative sex, so in those cases, non-penetrative sex would be much more fulfilling for them.

However, many of the women in this thread appear not to fall into that category, which is cool. But there's a lot of variety out there.

Also, women who love penetrative sex, but who have a few (or many) orgasms just from the "foreplay", can sometimes be satisfied with just the "foreplay" orgasms, for one session.

If you'll excuse the pun, there are no hard and fast rules.

 

29.08.2006, 15:13 quote

Anonymous

but to be with a man and never have full penetrative sex with him??? that's not natural. sorry but it's not.

 

29.08.2006, 15:23 quote

EazyE
EazyE Joined: 26 Aug 2006 Posts: 9 Location: United Kingdom, England, Leicestershire
View user's profile Visit poster's website

almostpurrrfect wrote:
but to be with a man and never have full penetrative sex with him??? that's not natural. sorry but it's not.



Its not natural but it depends if the woman is satisfied with foreplay and nothing else.
I also dont get how a man can give all that pleasure and not even want any back!

 

29.08.2006, 15:25 quote

scotincornwall

I wasn't talking about "natural", I was talking about personal preferences.

As I recall, it can be a dangerous path that starts by labelling male/female penetrative sex as "natural".

 
 
Jump to:

You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum