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Home >> Sex >> Sex on the first date?
16.12.2006, 04:15 quote
| flowerangelaura wrote: |
| This could actually be in either dating or sex..!
Would you have sex on the first date with somebody? If not, after how many dates, and why? |
If I don't have sex on the the first date, I lose interest. Women who play hard to get turn me off. I like sexy women. Unfortunately they are few and far between. Most women have no clue what it means to be sexy. Sexy is saying yes to a man, to whatever he wants, where ever, etc. You can tell on the first date if they person is right for you or not. If the sparks fly, without inhibitions, on the first date, the man's expectations are kept high and it just keeps getting better. Once a woman starts saying no, the man starts to expect her to say no to sex and that is the begining of the end. The net result is he starts looking around for someone who will say yes. So sex on the first date is a good think and leads to the most passionate of relationships.
16.12.2006, 08:18 quote
| BoffMe wrote: | ||
If I don't have sex on the the first date, I lose interest. Women who play hard to get turn me off. I like sexy women. Unfortunately they are few and far between. Most women have no clue what it means to be sexy. Sexy is saying yes to a man, to whatever he wants, where ever, etc. You can tell on the first date if they person is right for you or not. If the sparks fly, without inhibitions, on the first date, the man's expectations are kept high and it just keeps getting better. Once a woman starts saying no, the man starts to expect her to say no to sex and that is the begining of the end. The net result is he starts looking around for someone who will say yes. So sex on the first date is a good think and leads to the most passionate of relationships. |
Which means you have little respect for what a woman thinks or feels. I have little confidence in how my body looks, so sex on the first date for me is often a no-no. I need to trust the guy and have confidence in myself. Both build up over time, trust especially.
Ok, there are a couple of guys on here that I might well say yes to, but I've been speaking to them for a long time now, got to know them a fair bit and trust has been built up over time. You cannot dismiss someone as not being 'sexy' just because she won't 'give out' on a first date
16.12.2006, 10:52 quote
| Redsback wrote: |
| You cannot dismiss someone as not being 'sexy' just because she won't 'give out' on a first date |
he can if he wants, it may not be your cup of tea or mine for that matter but he can do that if he wants to.
17.12.2006, 01:45 quote
| BoffMe wrote: | ||
If I don't have sex on the the first date, I lose interest. Women who play hard to get turn me off. I like sexy women. Unfortunately they are few and far between. Most women have no clue what it means to be sexy. Sexy is saying yes to a man, to whatever he wants, where ever, etc. You can tell on the first date if they person is right for you or not. If the sparks fly, without inhibitions, on the first date, the man's expectations are kept high and it just keeps getting better. Once a woman starts saying no, the man starts to expect her to say no to sex and that is the begining of the end. The net result is he starts looking around for someone who will say yes. So sex on the first date is a good think and leads to the most passionate of relationships. |
17.12.2006, 02:03 quote
If it feels right do it ..... if it doesn't don't!
Who knows how you may feel about the person you are sitting across the table from for the first time!
If the other person does not respect you for whatever choice you make .....feck 'em off and move on!
17.12.2006, 17:55 quote
if a woman says no on a date even if she really wants to, doesn't it suggest she is either playing games with you, or she uses sex as a way of control?
i suppose she could have issues eg insecure about how sexy she is, but not counting that, i also get bored by a girls playing hard to get. just tiresome i'm afraid
17.12.2006, 19:06 quote
| compton wrote: |
| if a woman says no on a date even if she really wants to, doesn't it suggest she is either playing games with you, or she uses sex as a way of control?
i suppose she could have issues eg insecure about how sexy she is, but not counting that, i also get bored by a girls playing hard to get. just tiresome i'm afraid |
17.12.2006, 19:20 quote
| lovecat2 wrote: | ||
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You are really not gonna win your arguement with the "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" analogy!!
17.12.2006, 19:28 quote
| pollyanna37 wrote: | ||||
You are really not gonna win your arguement with the "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" analogy!!
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he's too stubborn anyway, won't do any good.
21.12.2006, 09:53 quote
| compton wrote: |
| if a woman says no on a date even if she really wants to, doesn't it suggest she is either playing games with you, or she uses sex as a way of control?
i suppose she could have issues eg insecure about how sexy she is, but not counting that, i also get bored by a girls playing hard to get. just tiresome i'm afraid |
okay, so for me it's because I don't believe I'm as attractive or as sexy as I'm told I am (hence the shock regarding the reaction to one of my pics) but even if a girl is sure of herself, it doesn't mean she's playing games or using it as a control thing. Some women have morals, some don't want to be seen as 'putting it about' and some do hold out to see if there's going to be more than just sex. There's nothing wrong in holding out for a relationship if that's what's wanted.
21.12.2006, 11:32 quote
I think its totally down to why you are dating the particular person you are for the first time.
I'm not sure that Sex on a first date is always a good idea. One reason being that it can become the focus of that relationship. Once that focus is lost then so is that relationship. If the relationship is built solely on sex then what are you doing with that person ?
I think you should have at least an understanding and more than one area of common interest unless its understood between the two of you that it is just for sexual relations.
Otherwise its just baseless lust , It's okay to lustful sometimes but if one or the other has more expectation than that it's how people get hurt and bitter.
22.12.2006, 00:07 quote
| lovecat2 wrote: | ||||||
he's too stubborn anyway, won't do any good. |
I am not sure whether I have just been insulted here or not
03.08.2007, 14:33 quote
| BoffMe wrote: | ||
If I don't have sex on the the first date, I lose interest. Women who play hard to get turn me off. I like sexy women. Unfortunately they are few and far between. Most women have no clue what it means to be sexy. Sexy is saying yes to a man, to whatever he wants, where ever, etc. You can tell on the first date if they person is right for you or not. If the sparks fly, without inhibitions, on the first date, the man's expectations are kept high and it just keeps getting better. Once a woman starts saying no, the man starts to expect her to say no to sex and that is the begining of the end. The net result is he starts looking around for someone who will say yes. So sex on the first date is a good think and leads to the most passionate of relationships. |
Sounds like you have very little, if any respect for woman. I guess your the kind of guy that thinks women are to be seen, and not heard, and who's place is at the kitchen sink too then? Sorry, but this is how you have put things across to me, at least, if not others.
I also, wonder, if you know how to be sexy?!? Since you think women should have to be and know how to be sexy with you. Let me start with telling you that sex on the first date (otherwise getting dumped if they don't) is NOT sexy!!! This is just pressure.
And let me add that women who don't put out on the first date are NOT playing games, or playing hard to get at all, they simply show respect for themselves!!!
Another thing. You can't tell if some one is right for you on the first date at all. For example. You could have a woman that seems totally perfect ont he first date (to you anyway) and yes, even puts out on the first date for you!!! But a month down the line..turns out to be a cunning little goldigger.... is this right for you? You wouldn't find out about it on the first date I can promise you that. So your comment seems to be totally irrevelant. No way on gods earth can you find out if some one is totally right for you on the first date
Woman are not here to just lie down, roll over, and say yes to mens every want and need you know. And I can tell you, if your on a dating site, you may want to try holding the sex off on the first date. I bet it will really get you somewhere. Sex on the first date leaves a woman feeling used, worthless and like the man only wants one thing from her usually, afterwards. Feelings felt by both me, and alot of my friends, so, I hope this helps
03.08.2007, 14:36 quote
| Leglover227 wrote: |
How about splitting the difference and settling for a blowjob?  |
You go, boy!
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