That aint always true dude. I can see what you mean. You wouldnt wait as long as you would have before but you would be sure to still take them on dates and stuff to get to know them.

How can you resist love if your getting on so well.

Having love on a first date depends on how well you are getting along. If im having a really good night and i dont want to go home then love is a natural progression for the evening (after meeting, drinks, food, dancing).

No way do i lose respect for a girl if she wants to get laid on the first date, why would i ?

Of course if your just going out to get laid anyway then it dosnt really matter if you respect her or not.
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"You dont need to emerge from nothing - you dont need to tear away"

You guys are right it ain't always true, so it's my humble opinion, and a very limited research lol. But it's mad the percentage of guys that i've asked, almost all of them said what i said. Completely stupid & wierd, but we just couldn't explain it.

Personally i've had 3 proper gf's in my life, and a crazy amount of bootycalls. Of the 3 gf's 2 totally blanked me at first lol, got to know me, then loved me. Only my last (incidentally an online dating site meet) did we sleep on the first date. Which sort of backs up the 'not always true' argument. But i will say I did have the 'booty call' feeling with her too until she got an right attitude with me, told me about my self, and told me never to darken her door again till i sorted myself out I was hooked then. We stayed together for 18months lol.

But u hav to admit, it is kinda cool to end the date with a really sweet snog, and the feeling of wanting more, but not getting it. The anticipation of a maybe, then getting shut down with the sweetwest of kisses, and a "nite nite" . You tryna get back to the car, readjusting your boxers so passers by can't see your woodie hehehe. By the time you actually do it you feel like it's the best shit you've ever had lol. But Eddie Murphy said "it wasn't the greatest love at all, you just waited real real long for it so it felt good. If you gave somebody who was starving a cracker, he gonna say that was the best damn cracker i ever had in my life" lol.

Thankyou darling.

I have had love on the 1st date but i find the whole spark gets knocked out of it because theres nuthing to build up to but it really depends on the situation if it happens it happens u aint going to turn it down now are you

I would rather have love on the first date, than the last.

Love ya,
Thomas

As I have said in other posts i believe in friends first, but hey i have been there and omg how great it was and some have lasted a very long time. I have also had friends then love, then screwed by them saying or not saying anything after and so long to them. If your out to have a good marry as some would say then go for it, and as fkkkbg says i think i would rather be it first than over and over again and find out that was it and now i am last.
the evilicious aluria

what steve said might be true for some but definitly isnt true for all.. and it isnt true for me, if it feels right and happens then great but if it doesnt then ok im not about to loose sleep over it or be put off etc.


the other thing that steve didnt say are the men who will date the girl for x munber of weeks or months or whatever it takes just because they want to have love, then as soon as they do they end it and move on the next, and ive also known afew girls who act like this as well, its not always the guy.

What can you do if, and when, you feel one way now, and then feel another way tomorrow?

"Oh sweet sugar baby I want you so much, I think about you all the time, I am so horny right now I will do anything, kiss kiss kiss, Oh yes kiss kiss; hug hug, touch here touch there, feel this oh yes that too, yes more more ....... feel snach marry, WOW, that was GREAT!!!"

But now I feel different and I am not so much interested in what I was interested in before, when I was HORNY. But, in awhile I will be horny again.

Love ya,
Thomas

Yes you are right women do change their minds alot, that is OK. But you should not wonder, then, why men give more attention to a womens body than to her mind.

Love ya,
Thomas

love on the first date, never, how can you know what sort of person you are with after a few hours, anything of worth has to be worked for

But what if it just seems 'right'..?

You do have a good point, though.[/quote]

If there is chemistry and it seems right, personally I would still rather wait and find out more about the person and wait to be sure I am making a wise choice,