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14.10.2008, 07:38 quote

colkitto

jeggae wrote:
colkitto wrote:
jeggae wrote:
colkitto wrote:
jeggae wrote:
colkitto wrote:
LittleVixen wrote:
If there is attraction there why not? lifes too short, well it is for me anyway, we are all adults at the end of the day...as long as its not hurting anyone else cant see why not..you never know where it might lead....2nd date maybe?


on that basis would you advocate this "maxim" to 18 year olds, and young people generally ?, or add some caution, its quite one thing to advocate reckless abandon to those who choose to think moral virtue has no currency value, and yes, we do make judgments, sometimes harsh ones, about going to bed with someone on the very first day/night we met them, that kind of behavior is best associated with prostitution, for those starting to navigate their way through the mire of preditors with low self esteem and ego trippers who consider bedding people as an achievement or something to brag about, they need at least to hear an alternative way to live, perhaps even then avoid fielding odious questions from perverts on a dating site.[/list]


That must be the false morality we have always had in this country, that has caused us so many problems.

Not sure anyone will listen to LV I'm afraid. Or are you asking for her opinion in your [seemingly] usual sanctimonious way??


..it's succinct and perhaps she can answer herself, rather than depending on you..eh and concise,as usual... seems odd that someone who offers to take me on a guided tour of dating sites to better judge women's virtue, would have the slightest clue what morality amounts too, in any for other than moral banktrupty, as to you're desperate query, you are indeed one of the "herd" you can attack ad nauseum with out challenge from admins, some people just lack the ability to paddle their own canoe, but I shall perhaps desist from responding to you, simply because you have an innate honesty, perhaps handicapped by inexperience,and having seen life as you do, through the wrong end of a telescope on the Internet, which is fine, amongst perhaps a few other anchors you drag.


I can imagine you shagging the young maiden in the village, while telling her she is wrong and evil for doing it. Just as our moral protectors always have done.

Not sure if you are on a wind up, but if the aint, then you are probably posting in the wrong place. But as far as I'm concerned you are more the welcome here.

Can you have an herd with one person?? I know the rules and I stick by them on the whole, as I do in real life. That is why I have no problems with the admin.


..rules as they told me at Prep School..are for the guidance of wise men...and the obedience of fools, as for the topic...tell us how you get on..when you get yer first date...lol...



You still go to prep school??

I get loads of dates in real life and on another site I go on, this site isn't very good, not sure why. Maybe I'm too old, you'll probably be too immature...or maybe not.

I've given up on this site as far as friends or dates go. But I wish you luck.


..nah..graduated to remedial class now...but slipped back and ended up here,where my ability as an uninterpretable bore has caused an outburst of affection towards me..don't give up yet fella...yer alright....no such thing as luck in life...only options...

 
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16.10.2008, 18:31 quote

snaithman

Pfft I would never dream of it.

 
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16.10.2008, 18:44 quote

funkychick1

love on a first date !!!!!! Well depends on the first date, if it's after talking to someone for weeks that you have met on the net and getting to know more about them than you ever would on a 'proper date' then it's highly likely to happen ........ if it's a date from swapping numbers in a bar and then arrange to meet up the next week, lets say ........ then that might be a different story .......... but hey love on any date would do me right now Wink

 
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16.10.2008, 18:57 quote

snaithman

Hey funky what are you insinuating?

 
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16.10.2008, 19:00 quote

funkychick1

snaithman wrote:
Hey funky what are you insinuating?


Nothing ......... speaking from past experience Razz

 
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16.10.2008, 19:17 quote

snaithman

I never drop my undies on the first date.
I like to make them wait so it is more appreciated and special.

 
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16.10.2008, 20:03 quote

justmejim70

snaithman wrote:
I never drop my undies on the first date.
I like to make them wait so it is more appreciated and special.


Never? .....someones going to be disappointed

 
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16.10.2008, 20:14 quote

justmejim70

I refer to one of the first posts on this subject , ..don’t know who it was by now. May have been one of Laura’s previous incarnations (I apologise to Laura if it’s not)

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I have noticed that if you sleep with a guy on the first 'date' or whatever, he will more than likely treat you as a bootycall.


I would prefer to be respected by a guy than be a bootycall.


Sounds about right to me!, ..and works the other way around as well. Smile

 
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16.10.2008, 20:15 quote

snaithman

Well Jim if you want me to make an exception for you, erm, hah. Sad

 
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05.04.2009, 10:18 quote

sc0ttie

If the chemistry is there why not? after all its a mutually pleasurable pastime, or it was last time I did it Laughing

 
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06.04.2009, 09:03 quote

choochi0

I certainly wouldn't do it for the sake of it.

It depends on what you want from the date I guess, if you only want love then its a given really (as long as your date wants it too of course), but if you want something more lasting then you need to think about where the date is going to lead. If you are not sure it will last far past love, but that is ok with you then go for it. If it's not ok then don't.

Am I making sense?

 
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06.04.2009, 10:44 quote

70

Very much so, also agreeing with Scottie too Very Happy

 
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06.04.2009, 12:03 quote

darkhorse57

choochi0 wrote:
.............if you only want love then its a given really (as long as your date wants it too of course).............


Aha ......

...... in cases such as this, why even bother with the ‘date’ aspect?

One could just as easily turn up at the others house, make small talk, order a take-away, have a few drinks, and then get down to the nitty gritty. I mean this purely as a point of discussion, not a criticism if anyone does do that (since I myself have been known to do exactly that at one time or another, am am not in a position to point a finger )

Or is a 'date' (i.e. going somewhere together) part of that whole experience? Is the date a prelude to love, or is the love a bonus to the date? Perhaps it depends on how well one has got to know someone prior to the first date?

 
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06.04.2009, 18:42 quote

kadushu

Why bother with the whole meet/date/dinner/whatever at all? Why not go to a brothel? I mean if you want top service surely you can't beat a professional

 
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06.04.2009, 19:39 quote

darkhorse57

kadushu wrote:
Why bother with the whole meet/date/dinner/whatever at all? Why not go to a brothel? I mean if you want top service surely you can't beat a professional


Well, you see, I think a lot of people like to go through the pretence that 'it will go further' and that they'll see each other again.

And some people like the excitement of a ‘first date’ (and often become serial daters!), and the potential adventure that it promises; adventure that one doesn’t get at a brothel, cos you know exactly what is going to happen there, cos you’re paying for it. Besides, Choochi0 might come in with her colleagues and bust yer arse

 
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