how often do you think is appropiate?

As much as possible
In the beginning several times a day

Depends entirely on the people in the relationship, what they want, what they are looking for and what they would be happy with. There in no deffinate answer to that question.

any time your in the mood
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yea i think im one of the only guys that been dumped because we didnt have sex enough!!!!!!!!!

I dont think you are!!! Im sure thats happened to MANY blokes.
Slightly harsh if she never gave you any indication that she wanted more before dumping you. She should have at least let you know what she wanted and given you the chance to make things better.

yea she did tell me i just needed more food for the energy required lol

Well if she told you that she needed/wanted more sex and you didnt do anything about it then I guess thats just the way the cookie crumbles. If she wasnt happy, she told you she wasnt happy, why she wasnt happy and what WOULD make her happy and you didnt do anything about it I cannot see why she 'should' stay with you.

Sorry if that sounds harsh - just my opinion.

HARSH!!! i would say at least once a day but us women are never happy!!(and i have a high sex drive?)

Once a day minimum for me!!! LoL Usually more!!!

arr she wanted it 3 times a day and most of the time it was just after id been at college alday..... owell

I dont think 3 times a day is too much to ask for at all

yea not now i think back to it. i must ov been pretty low on energy to have declined realy

I think so - Still think she was a bit harsh dumping you over it - unless the lack of sex went on over a prolongued period. But Hey Hoo, thats life!

well i think she will always have unfulfilled emotional relationships as she seems a little selfish and is putting way too much emphasis on the sexual side of things,which isnt the basis nor the be all and end all of a relationship