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12.11.2007, 22:15 quote

loubylou
loubylou Joined: 28 Oct 2006 Posts: 1722 Location: United Kingdom, England, North Yorkshire
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Is it true that men only get a surge in their sex drives in their early teens and women have them as they get older? I watched a documentary about it but it was many years ago now anyone shed any light on this subject?

 

12.11.2007, 22:31 quote

Anonymous

From how I remember hearing a while ago, men are reckoned to reach their peak at about 18 years old, and women are at their peak at more like 30

That kind of sucks for me, knowing I was at my prime 15 years ago

Crying or Very sad

 

12.11.2007, 22:36 quote

Anonymous

I've heard that as well. Apparently there is a paradox where men are more active when in late teens early 20's and women more active late 30's and 40's.

But when I was 12/13/14 years old I wanted to wank non stop. Had to do it when the wind blew. On another messageboard I go on where there are a lot of divorced 30/40 year olds, all they talk about is masturbating every minute. So there could be something in it. Most women I have been with seem to want sex non stop lol
So there could be something in it.

 

12.11.2007, 23:08 quote

CostaCork
Joined: 06 May 2007 Posts: 367 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork
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I have a sex drive all the time Wink vroom vroom Laughing

I know i know, its the way i tell them

 

13.11.2007, 22:13 quote

Anonymous

yeah bloody women want sex all the time now ! where were they 20 years ago when i wasnt getting any

 

13.11.2007, 23:59 quote

ChiefOHara
ChiefOHara Joined: 11 Feb 2006 Posts: 2853 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork
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It depends, when im idle my sex drive goes through the roof, but when im up to my eyeballs in work my sex drive takes a serious dive.

Men could be horny as hell at 18 because they simply have less to do then.

 

14.11.2007, 18:26 quote

Anonymous

ChiefOHara wrote:
It depends, when im idle my sex drive goes through the roof, but when im up to my eyeballs in work my sex drive takes a serious dive.


I find the same, but probably because when i'm really busy i'm knackered by the time i get home and can only just manage to cook dinner. But if i have a really lazy Sunday, feet up in front of the telly then it tends to kick in. Hmmm........ So glad i'm off to an Ann Summers party on Friday night

 

15.11.2007, 00:59 quote

maggiex35
maggiex35 Joined: 07 Oct 2006 Posts: 154 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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BexBex wrote:
ChiefOHara wrote:
It depends, when im idle my sex drive goes through the roof, but when im up to my eyeballs in work my sex drive takes a serious dive.


I find the same, but probably because when i'm really busy i'm knackered by the time i get home and can only just manage to cook dinner. But if i have a really lazy Sunday, feet up in front of the telly then it tends to kick in. Hmmm........ So glad i'm off to an Ann Summers party on Friday night


Have a great time on Friday Bex I love Ann Summers parties (and it's my birthday on Friday!!!).

Back to the question I think it's the person you're with or the person you're thinking of being with. If you think you have no chance there's nothing but when you think they're interested woo hoo! Overdrive.

Twisted Evil Twisted Evil Twisted Evil

 

15.11.2007, 12:37 quote

annmarie5988

loubylou wrote:
Is it true that men only get a surge in their sex drives in their early teens and women have them as they get older? I watched a documentary about it but it was many years ago now anyone shed any light on this subject?


Well i can say my sex drive has definately heightened since i hit my 30's, cant answer the male side of it obviously, but dont have any complaints about the 30 something male Wink Wink I suppose it does depend on the attractinn no matter how old you are and also if your not in a realationship then i tend not to think about it much, but if i am want it when ever possible .................... x

 

15.11.2007, 13:51 quote

Anonymous

Is a sex drive the same thing as kerb crawling? I don't have a car, so no driving for me


Sex drive for men = when we're young, we're horny all the time and have sex with all our middle-aged neighbours frustrated wives. When we're middle-aged, we're horny most of the time, and want to have sex with all our middle-aged neighbours daughters.

 

15.11.2007, 17:32 quote

Chet24
Chet24 Joined: 20 Mar 2007 Posts: 11902 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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i'm 25 horny all the time and dont get any! So i guess as i get older i will want it less, its all down hill from here lol...
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21.11.2007, 18:05 quote

Anonymous

My sex drive goes up n down all over the place.... just wish my boyfriend did Wink

 

22.11.2007, 00:39 quote

chikhai

Since I hit 30 it has gone through the roof. To the extent where I ended up seeing my GP about it (we're talking borderline priapism here), where I was told 'be thankful'. It seems the more I get the more I want.

 

22.11.2007, 02:20 quote

GavTheMighty
GavTheMighty Joined: 05 Aug 2007 Posts: 107 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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I do know that for men it's supposed to be when your 18 that you pretty much hit sexual peek......

As for sex drive well I really havent changed at all since I was 15........I really say this not as a brag but more in embarassment in truth lol. I seem to have a pretty high sex drive.

It can make relationships more difficult because if you are seeing someone who is more than happy to only have sex once a week for example it puts a strain on things.

Ah well the only thing I have learned is I would rather have sex with a girl I loved once a week than a girl I couldn't care less for 20 times a week. Smile

 

22.11.2007, 13:51 quote

Anonymous

GavTheMighty wrote:
Ah well the only thing I have learned is I would rather have sex with a girl I loved once a week than a girl I couldn't care less for 20 times a week. Smile


I like that attitude! But still, like you said, it can be difficult in a relationship if one person has a much higher sex drive than the other.

 
 
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