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27.11.2006, 20:28 quote

Anniew
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27.11.2006, 21:04 quote

missme7

I would have no problem if my boyfriend (if i had one) wanted to watch porn as long as he let me have a look too Smile

 

27.11.2006, 21:07 quote

Anonymous

Some guys will feel guilty about it, even if they know you're probably aware of it. It's nothing to worry about, at all. Porn isn't infidelity.

 

27.11.2006, 21:20 quote

Anniew
Joined: 24 Nov 2006 Posts: 12 Location: United Kingdom, England, Buckinghamshire
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i agree with missme Smile if he is honest there is nothing for the girl to worry about.

infedility can occur in many forms not just by ACTUALLY HAVING SEX with sum1 else!

if there is trust in the relationship theres nothing to hide or be ashamed of

 

27.11.2006, 21:50 quote

Aradon
Aradon Joined: 10 Aug 2006 Posts: 3090 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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indeed, hiding it is nonsense really should always be honest and open with everything.
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27.11.2006, 22:12 quote

ShaolinMonk
Joined: 09 Oct 2006 Posts: 75 Location: Canada, Ontario, Barrie
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I LOVE PORN

w00t w00t

I LOVE WEED

w00t w00t

I LOVE SEX

w00t w00t

got nothing to hide
whats the big deal, I'm totaly comfortable with it, are you?

 

27.11.2006, 22:23 quote

Anonymous

I dont like porn so much anymore. Simple reason being is its got boring. Simple reason why, the internet. Its just way to easy to access and theres just to much of it. Before the 'net explosion' porn, esp good porn was hard to come by (pardon the expresion) and usually meant getting hold of any of decent quality was quite difficult but these days two clicks of a mouse and you can have as much as you want of any description. You spend ages trolling through sites just to find anything remotely interesting now. I cant remember the last time I watched any porn for more than a few minutes before thinking 'this is dull'.

 

27.11.2006, 22:50 quote

Cidem
Cidem Joined: 31 Dec 2005 Posts: 805 Location: United Kingdom, Channel Islands, Isle of Man
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Couldn't agree more Morillo.... I honestly can't remember the last time I saw any porn unless you count the Pirrelli calander !

It's either that or i'm getting too old to find it interesting.... you've seen one, you've seen them all theory. Hehe

I'm kind of surprised that the porn industry has survived the net explosion - with all the free stuff that is now circulating it's a wonder that anybody actually buys it now.

As for the original question..... If if turns a person on then why not watch it but keeping it a secret ? Nope - girls can be just as aroused by it as the chaps so why hide it - watch it together and enjoy each other aswell as the porn.
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28.11.2006, 07:38 quote

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missme7 wrote:
I would have no problem if my boyfriend (if i had one) wanted to watch porn as long as he let me have a look too Smile


Ditto. I'd be most hacked off if I found out my felleh (hypothetical fellah that is Confused ) was watching without me Wink

 

28.11.2006, 10:45 quote

Anonymous

missme7 wrote:
I would have no problem if my boyfriend (if i had one) wanted to watch porn as long as he let me have a look too Smile


I'm with missme and Red on this one Smile

 

28.11.2006, 18:18 quote

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swissrebel wrote:
Some guys will feel guilty about it, even if they know you're probably aware of it. It's nothing to worry about, at all. Porn isn't infidelity.



Hmm, I know some girls that would disagree about it not being infidelity...

I guess that solong as it is in the open and not secret then there is no issue (bit like the whole having sex with other people dabate that was somewhere).

 

28.11.2006, 18:38 quote

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Aradon wrote:
indeed, hiding it is nonsense really should always be honest and open with everything.


my bestmates fella is always hiding it on her, tis not right at all
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28.11.2006, 20:11 quote

beddo
beddo Joined: 15 Oct 2006 Posts: 308 Location: United Kingdom, England, Merseyside
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If he's hiding the porn on her then he's not very bright is he..

Personally, I guess porn is intriguing and there's some physical turn on there but if you've got a real life person to play with then there's no time to pay attention to whatever is on screen - be it porn, the queen or a giant turnip.

If someone's jealous of someone watching porn then why not make some of your own for that person. You can hardly be jealous about them looking at you! Razz

 

28.11.2006, 20:20 quote

Anonymous

whizzer wrote:
swissrebel wrote:
Some guys will feel guilty about it, even if they know you're probably aware of it. It's nothing to worry about, at all. Porn isn't infidelity.



Hmm, I know some girls that would disagree about it not being infidelity...


As much as the definition of infidelity is shakey, those girls are wrong.

I'm not defending people viewing porn in secret, in fact i'm sure that's part of the thrill for them, in fact i don't even think I need to defend people viewing porn at all - but if a girl considers it to be unfaithful, irregardless of whether it's discussed openly or not, she's just insecure about a relationship.

And before someone decides to come back at this with "oh, but they're thinking about another woman!" i'll just take the simplest, most pain-free route, which is that you'll never get a man divorced on grounds of infidelity in regards to viewing porn. Even in secret. You could get him divorced on "being unable to perform" perhaps.

To be fair, both the opening poster and the poster's other half have issues, one's keeping secrets, the other's getting all wound up about him getting off.

Confused

 

28.11.2006, 22:54 quote

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Out2lunch Joined: 25 Nov 2006 Posts: 47 Location: United Kingdom, England, Dorset
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I agree with all of the above, but what i think a lot of us have forgotten as we all see to be paid up individuals where we can vent our frustrations have odd conversations with relative friends/strangers who most of us will never meet on forums etc lie here.

I remember when I was rowing up though the thought of sharing porn, (apart from with your best mate), would have just been wrong. You were being a pervert yadda yadda yadda. You hear 'What nice girls would want a bloke like you looking at porn'.

You ladies are mostly the same, whenever the conversation of masturbation comes up, the first thing out of many ladies mouth is I don’t masturbate/fart/etc the list goes on.

Something’s are still private/taboo to people, and having a secret stash of porn is kind of exciting in its way. I remember the first time I went to Amsterdam, i used to smoke pot occasionally, but when you were there for a week, there was no taboo about it so you ended up stopping after a few days as the excitement about it was gone.

This happens with porn too, while its closeted its exciting/wrong, but out in the open its a bit too clinical/boring/tame. Watching it with a partner who’s up for it can be very exciting too though Smile

He’s probably very worried about what you think f him though right now, as I read one of your other posts about his older lady fetish, now hidden porn, he probably is very frightened that you will leave him for being a pervert, where you actually seem quite sane and sensible by asking the right kind of questions.


Remember talikng about fantasies/sex etc is still quite hard even for the more open ones amongst us.
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