Why is that loads of men on this site are so bothered about seeing as many photos of us women as they can, yet seem to think it's OK for them to hide what they look like????????????
I'm far from shallow, but I do like to know what someone looks like. So any men out there stop complaining about not having many responses if you have no picture, load one up and you might actually find what you're looking for, or else I for one will continue to be suspiscious about who you really are.

i am quite suspicious about the person i'm chatting with, i usually send a message if there are 2 or more pics, more pics give better idea

I had a look at your profile and yes, I like all the pics and they do show the different things/places you're interested in.
Now I'm thinking I've not got the right ones on my profile!!!! I'd only been thinking of up-dating, not showing the range of things that I'm involved with.
So, I guess I'll have to address that too, just in case some guy might actually want to know something more than what I look like.

i am glad you like my pics (i have to admit i am not successful at this game, i rarely send messages as i hardly get replies , i usually spend my time on the forum).

and left some mystery on your profile.

WANT TO CHAT THA PICS R MINE ALL MINE

i have found my twin after 25 years,

Wow! Tell us more?

I can't send a lot of replies, so it may be you don't get many replies due to technical problems, and there are loads!!!

i guess i dont have sense of humour

I've never been confident about my looks, so it was hard for me to put up pictures of me. I'm not sure if they are any good though?

Do women generally look at all of the pictures or is the first one the most important?

I love to look at the photos........ all of them! and I like to see where they were taken as it usually tells something about the kind of person you are. I don't know how the photos are arranged because I wouldn't have placed mine in the order they are. Most sites you can just move them around, but haven't seen a way of doing that apart from deleting and starting again. Having said that, we're often not the best judge as to which of our photos are more appealing.
Shyness, is ok you have a lovely smile and sparkling eyes, ladies will always be looking for something different.

i'd rather chat with someone first before sending them pics not bcoz i've got anything to hide. I just don't like the idea of any random person in the world being able to look at pics of me & for all i know i'm walking by someone in the street or sitting in the same bar as me and they recognise me from a profile on something like this and know stuff about me when i don't know anything about them or even know that been looking at my pics

Re the point above. I dont actually mind it because i dont do or say anything on here that i wouldnt say or do in real life. So if you see me in a pub...feel free to say hi

I dont normally reply to people with no photos i must admit. I like to know who is mailing me

Oh and hi and welcome to the site Melissa

If you see me in a pub, get ya hands in your pocket and buy me a drink!

Cheers for the welcome Cazza,
its not that i'm worried about anything i say, just think it seems a bit strange plus i work with kids and it wouldn't be appropriate if the kids or parents etc were to come across me on something like flirtbox. If anyone wants to chat with me i'd be happy to exchange photos