I am 48 and have recently had offers from men of 21 and 22.

Now, I am a bit tempted because

(a) they have taut young bodies, not the saggy, wrinkly ones of men of my own age and

(b) I know they'd have an iron bar down their trousers for me, whereas, again, many men of my age are starting to get erectile problems

BUT

What worries me is that their immaturity will mean they don't know how to treat a lady, won't have good bedroom manners, won't be patient, won't be devoted to my pleasure first as men of my own age are.

I could end up very disappointed.

Also, it depends what you mean by "younger men".

I lived for 4 years with a man 12 years younger than me. When we met we were 34 and 22. It worked, not just love but the whole cohabiting thing. His mother, however, was totally against it.

I am now 48 and would prefer to have love with a man of 36 than of 60. But I'm not keen on the under 30s. For me 36 to 44 would be perfect

My answer is no. I have always found them to have no self control and selfish in the bedroom. Give me an older more mature, experienced man who is equally concerned in pleasuring the woman as well as himself. With younger men, if the love isn't good at least it doesn't last too long...

I've reached "older woman mystique" age, I've found - I get contacted by 18-22 year olds all the time. However, I've discovered I now officially have an age limit. My ex was ten years my junior but there is something daunting in saying "Led Zepplin" and having someone ask "Who's that" (or worse still "Oh yeah my dad likes them"). Around 28 is as low as I'll go as I've a family of my own and have no desire to have more children, let alone deal with a man who still wants to go out partying all the time when I've a child to mind - or worse still doesn't want anything to do with my kid because he's young and doesn't want to feel too responsible about life.

It's an ego boost being with a younger man, and at a certain age all they want is love and can't be bothered to even pick up their socks or flat before getting there. I'll go with a younger man, but only if they can show me they've got it where it counts in the maturity department, not just in the body department.

Sounded like a brush off
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lol, wasn't a brush off.

I'm not somebody that mixes her words.

AH OK, my hands up, I don't mind admitting when I get it wrong!
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